You Never Get To Choose!

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  1. dotsnake

    dotsnake Well-Known Member

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    I never had choices! i mean, i can choose to watch tv, but if my parents disagree, then i cant choose what i want!
    every body controls me!Icant control my self..... if a teacher or a parents doesnt want me to do that, then i cant.... Sometimes, i ask my self a questions....
    who em I?
    what em i doing here?
    what em I?
    Whats the point of living?
    I know Every parents doesnt understand this!
    thats crazy! anyways! i fell like im not me!
    if you fell the same way! plz reply back
     
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    wow, i geuss it depends from what culture your from? Because ussualy ur parents are taught to bring you up a different way. Like my parents dont belive in grounding and all that bull. Dont worry man you parents will understand more, and hopefully cave in :lol:
     
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    I somewhat agree with Hardeep, parents should know that when we are teenagers, it is the time of people when they expand their views and become theirselves, its like an egg hatching, we're just maturing.

    Parents usually take this as a bad thing, and decide to go over the top and become too overprotective..
     
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    You have no idea how much I agree with that post.... ;)
     
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    i agree with million 100%!!
    and another thing that i absolutely cant stand...
    im 14, and i started makin a lil money here and there and now my parents make me buy everything i want.. and even though I buy it, THEY still have the power to take it away from me... now thats sum bull----! example: i got a cell phone a while ago, bought it myself ($250) and i pay for the monthly bill ($20-$50 a month)... i pay ALL THAT, yet they can still take it away from me if i mess up a little...
     
  6. Blazeman

    Blazeman Am I Evil?

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    agreed... desi parents are iLL :lol:
     
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    Soultion to you problem dont give a ---- do waht you want if your teachers/parents dont like it they can go to hell live your life the way you want :D
     
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    Yeah sure! Lets not give a rats ass! Stop the teachers from helping people who need it! Stop your parents from telling what best for you, what do they know about life!? As if they ever were teenagers![/sarcasme]

    Come on guys, rules are needed we all know that. Its just in out blood to kick against em. But dont blame em for having rules.

    [Story]
    Okay, i think some of you know i am a teacher, here is a story from my life.

    Brain was a kid that was in one of my classes. He was 12 when i met him.
    Brain was a kid 'Blessed' with parents who just dont give a f*ck, and with no rules. He came to school wearing the same dirty cloth all day. He was always late because he could stay up whatever time he wants.
    Brain was one of the most intelligent kids i had im my classes for a long while, but he never got the oppertunitie to show that. The first half school year he just came and went whenever he would like.

    Because there were no rules at home, and his parent never stopped drinking he did worse at school. He ended up in a group of people who were dealing drugs. The reason that he got in was that his older brother got in.

    And the end of last school year Brain was all fet up. He didnt have anyone to go home to, because his parents just didnt give a ----. I spoke to the parents one time, and told them brian wass dealing drugs. (Yes a 12 yo) an their awnser was: Schouldnt school act against it?!

    To make this story to a fast end: Brain is dead.......He just could live with the situation at home. He felt like there was reallu nobody for him, and that he was useless! So he jumped of a building....

    Moral: Be blessed with parents who give a ---- about you. You see it as rulses and you might hate it. Your parents are there for you!



    Something else...Teachers....Realize for once that they arent there to bully you around! They are here to give you a good education, so you can put in to the max in your future!!

    Think about this for once ;)

    Bratzer

    ps, yes your parents still have sex!
     
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    You have no idea how much I agree with that post.... ;) [/b][/quote]
    greed man great way to putit.
     
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    it's just like psychology, sometimes parents do this because they used to be rebel themselves when they were your age, i have no problems with my parents (except with my grades... that's a different story :P ) whilst others do. The reason is that you have to show your parents you are exactly like them, act mature, even if they 'think' they know whats best for you, you should be able to tell whats best for yourself, unless you smoke and drink of course, they think that you'd influence other people.

    What im basically trying to say is, you should give it some time, relax, act like an adult, and if they disagree with something your doing, ask them why, start a 'reasonable' debate where you can express your views on both sides. This way it'll help parents understand that your old enough to explain your views and that you understand whats good and not good for you.

    Hope i helped out :)
     
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    oOoOooOooOoO LOLOLOL

    oh lol is he damn right !!!
     
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    Yeah sure! Lets not give a rats ass! Stop the teachers from helping people who need it! Stop your parents from telling what best for you, what do they know about life!? As if they ever were teenagers![/sarcasme]

    Come on guys, rules are needed we all know that. Its just in out blood to kick against em. But dont blame em for having rules.

    [Story]
    Okay, i think some of you know i am a teacher, here is a story from my life.

    Brain was a kid that was in one of my classes. He was 12 when i met him.
    Brain was a kid 'Blessed' with parents who just dont give a f*ck, and with no rules. He came to school wearing the same dirty cloth all day. He was always late because he could stay up whatever time he wants.
    Brain was one of the most intelligent kids i had im my classes for a long while, but he never got the oppertunitie to show that. The first half school year he just came and went whenever he would like.

    Because there were no rules at home, and his parent never stopped drinking he did worse at school. He ended up in a group of people who were dealing drugs. The reason that he got in was that his older brother got in.

    And the end of last school year Brain was all fet up. He didnt have anyone to go home to, because his parents just didnt give a ----. I spoke to the parents one time, and told them brian wass dealing drugs. (Yes a 12 yo) an their awnser was: Schouldnt school act against it?!

    To make this story to a fast end: Brain is dead.......He just could live with the situation at home. He felt like there was reallu nobody for him, and that he was useless! So he jumped of a building....

    Moral: Be blessed with parents who give a ---- about you. You see it as rulses and you might hate it. Your parents are there for you!



    Something else...Teachers....Realize for once that they arent there to bully you around! They are here to give you a good education, so you can put in to the max in your future!!

    Think about this for once ;)

    Bratzer

    ps, yes your parents still have sex! [/b][/quote]
    whell, some class never thought us anything, and some parents are too damn over protected, that they have to choose what kind of clothes we wear..... example, i keep wearing a chain and my hat is side to side!
    now my perents found out because of my damn concilour.. i cant wear them no more, because they think it will make my attitude better! well, they're wrong! it will make my attitude worse and i will HATE them more! freaking parents is TOO DAMN over protected! and too STUPID to understand! even if they dont have reasons, they will make up a LIE!
     
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    If you don`t getalong with the parents, you just move out. Simple and easy!! :lol:
    And they`ll miss you....bubhuhu...lol
     
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    Sad story Bratzer, good conclusion.

    It's very important that you reseive love from some1 that helps you while you make your first nimble stepts up the road of life. And later on in life. There used to live a guy in my village, never got any love from his parents. Ended up stealing and making a mess out of his life. Has been in prison for a couple of time, and this a 'big' 'achievement' for some1 from the village I live.

    lol @ that
     
  15. Blazeman

    Blazeman Am I Evil?

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    then stop dressin like that u wanksta :lol:
     

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