you can use Stardock Windowblinds, or you can just use windows Visual Themes. try stardock.com, or downoad a modified wversion of uctheme.dll and replace with new one. then download windows themes. sorry to be so vague
Just depends. You may be thinking of WindowBlinds. Thats the most common one i think. I personally use StyleXP, its the same basic program.
http://www.gamerenders.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=112891 there all your questions may be answered...
There are a lot of them >_> Some of the most common are WindowsBlinds StyleXp -And what I use but what isn't so common: TuneUp Utilities 2006 (It has a bunch of other useful stuff too ^_^)
I've used both in the past but TuneUp Utilities has the same features basically and it also includes a lot of other useful things such as a RegistryCleaner, 1-Click Maintenance, and RegistryDefrag... Also System Advisor and such
I personally use an unlocked uxtheme.dll and add visual styles. It's like StyleXP and WindowBlinds but it's not a 3rd party prog so it doesn't waste resources. You can refer to this for unlocking it: http://www.neowin.net/forum/index.php?showtopic=339820 I get most of my Visual Styles from deviantART. If you ever do this, check 'em out here: [link] I use the first one. ^_^
Never thought of doing that Was always curious as to how the programs did it for you... Like how simple it had to be yet they made so much money haha