What Is The Appropriate Age?

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  1. Foolshouse

    Foolshouse New Member

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    11 is 2 young to be doing anything and so is 8th grade and your relationship isnt going to last and your just gunna be doing stupid things you might get a kiss but im pretty sure no matter how old you are if it goes beyond that its illegal for that age
     
  2. Sapphire Blade

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    i only date people older than me, but sure 2 years isn't much of a difference as long as it doesn't go to far. It would also be a problem if you turn 14 and she won't be 12 in a while. Forget that females mature faster than males bs, i say 2 years is fine, but no more than that...also, why date at that age? can't drive, parents give you money, can't work, she can't go to a pg-13 movie (basing these things on american standards). That leaves alot of idleness filled with talking, walking and ultimately kissing/grouping.................................
     
  3. Lennox

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    When your young, 2 years is a big difference. As you get older, age doesnt really matter.

    Also Grade 6 is way too early to start dating. I didn't have a girlfriend till Grade 11.
     
  4. SomeThingCreepy

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    When your 14 and she is what? 11? I would consider it to be a little much. You would never get anything more than an innocent unlearned kiss. What's wrong with going to let's say the mall or something and pick up girls there?

    It's alright for a guy to date a year younger, but 2 years younger, when your almost out of middle school, and she's still in elemtary, there is something confusing here. Once you get older, the gap expands, however remember she is young, remember what you were into when you were still in 6th grade? She would be enjoying those small enjoyments such as pokemon cards or DragonBallZ figures. :-/
     
  5. Sapphire Blade

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    junior year? wow!!, most of the people i know started in 7th and 8th grade

    remember all you kids out there, stay abstinent (until atleast 16...try to make it that long, resist temptation even if you feel you are ready)...man, i'm such a good role model lol.
     
  6. ShneakySquirrel

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    The younger the age, the smaller the boundries. She's 11, your are almost 14. It's the same as a Junior dating a Freshman as far as age goes. But the maturity level is SOOOO different, that it's generally not okay. However, if you actually like her, then go for it.
     
  7. Typhon

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    PEDOPHILE!!

    nah jokes....no age doesnt matter one bit.

    Your just err how can i say this.....its like a 17 year old boy going out with a 14 year old girl....same as that but younger!

    :) gl mate!

    EDIT: also just to say its perfectly fine....not like anyone will judge you and if they do just ignore them :D
     
  8. Lennox

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    White Kids start that young, its pointless at that age anyways. I could have had tons if I wanted, but they're all just friends. Had crushes on some but didn't actually wanna date most of them. Then at my birthday kegger hall party my friends threw for me, met this amazin chick. Started hangin out after and eventually asked her out.
     
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    dude, go for it. seriously, i mean, when you get older i swear your gonna regret it later so like.. go for it. as long as you don't take things too far then it's straight.
     
  10. shortfusewar

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    dont ask her out man...one..she probly donts have any boobs thats a big no for me that is..and second ur ass would be made fun of soooooooo bad its not funny..i have a friend that went out with a 12 year old..and hes 15..WTF hella naw we hella made fun of him..so naw..dont
     
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    If you're 13,and shes 11.. Don't do it. wait until shes 12 or something.
     
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    youre both too young to be worrying and caring about this.
     
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    ^Age 13/14 is not too young for this. At this age most people have matured and learned how to pronounce, and speak properly. And I'm sure they have proper manners and respect women. So it is perfectly fine for 13-15 year olds to be going out with each other. Now if you want to go out with someone younger than you at this age.... That's a different story. You just matured/maturing but they have not matured yet. So it dosen't matter if you have or haven't as long as you want to.

    P.S.: I'm 13 turning 14 on January the 28th.
     
  14. dharmesha13

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    I was talking to her today on the bus. And she told me she broke up with her boyfriend. The way she said it and reacted was "I dont want your sympathy or your help"
    So then she kinda blew me off.

    I think i probably wont ask her out ;(
    Guys in my class are already giving me a hard time about liking an 11 year old. It seems her and I's relatioship is kinda decreasing.which sucks

    Im going to wait until after christmass to make final decision but I honestly dont think I'll do it..I mean what if she actually says "no" what will i do then?

    age difference..it doesnt stop me from liking her BUT it does make plenty of complications and im not sure how the 6th graders will react to it...
    Soooo overall. ill be single until highschool or unless a random girl comes down from the heavens..

    Thanks for support and advice....maybe next year ill be able to post how great my love life is going...(just maybe)
     
  15. shortfusewar

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    its a 11 year old :| wtf...UR 13/14...shes..omg i cant even say how stupid it is getting sad over an 11 year old..omg
     

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