Im a 13 (14 in feb) year old boy who goes to a private k-8 school with limited girls..All the girls in my grade clearly established to the boys that their not dating anyone this year so that leaves us in a pretty bad bind..so u would think...what about the 7th graders??the girls in that grade spazzy,annoying,special,and a little bit different..at this point guys in my class are like "Screw it" i'll wait until highschool..not the same for me. One day on the bus home for school their is hardly anyone riding..becasue almost everyone else is taking SSAT prep course..So a 6th grade girl asks me if she can sit in the back seat across from me.I tell her sure..When i glanced over at her I couldnt help to notice her flowing blonde hair and her radiant face.and shes was actually nice to talk to...2 days later.same exact situation this time I decide i want to be a little bold..the conversation was going well we start kinda flirting in way..Then i get my right hand then grabbed her leg then massaged her thighs..She though it was funny and didnt take offense..and i was like thats awesome!! Later that night i was thinking about it//then it came to mind THIS GIRL IS AN 11 YEAR OLD.WTF WAS I THINKING later days on the bus we are still mingling and things..then i tell her if you were a year older id totally ask you out. She says "Age doesnt matter my mom is 37 and my dad is 44" And i already have a boyfriend.But we never talk so well probably break up sooon Im not exactly sure if she was trying to lead me on or what.... So now i actually "like" this girl although some of my friends call me a pervert and a rapist (jokingly) So do you think it would be wrong if ask her to be my girlfriend? Its not like id try to have sex with her or anything like that..furthest we'd go is kissing , Also do you think 2 years is too big a gap for relationships at this age? I really dont know what to do..it would be awkward with girl that young..but i like her and i dont have a lot of options.. SIGH
Im 13 and there is nothing wrong with it but I tend to date my own grade. I go to a public school though. Just don't take it too far or anything.
dude it doesnt matter the age most of the time when you are older you date younger women so go for it man and whats 2 years big wow so just ask her out
I personally wouldn't ask her out if I was in 8th grade, but if it makes you feel better go for it. I would just wait for High school, more girls .
age to me doesn't really matter, well kinda of course, I don't want to be too young or too old for a girl but it does depend on how mature a girl is, both acting and thinking I mean some girls act like they're 10 even though they're 15 already, just depends on how mature they think. i would ask her out though if you really like her
Personally I feel there are certain boundries. I dont feel 'dating' before age 13 should be something that should be happening. I personally think of the age brackets like this: 13-15 14-16 15-18 16-19 17-21 18-22 19-24 20-25 21-27 and after that, its basically keeping a 6-10 year boundry. Obviously there is something highly wrong with a 23 year old dating a 13 year old, outside the fact its illegal, generally the 23 year old is up to no good.
No offence or anything, but arnt you considered an adult and she considered a teenager which makes it illegal?
actually when you turn 18, chances are you sometimes you might end up dating some older than you since you don't want to be dating someone who's still in highschool. (not unless you graduated from senior and your gf/bf was a junior at that time) that's what I think
