Scared And Lonely, Please Help

Hey, Could anyone help me, Lately i can be motivated to do anything, Talk work or ANYTHING
I feel so tired at all times, No ammount of sugar can help, so ive kinda self guessed im depressed

I know why i could be, Lifes just been a constant chain of damaging and hard events and it just seems to be getting worse

Could anybody tell me some ways that would help? With out Need for medication or telling doctor (That'd be hard for me, a lot of reasons)

PLLLLEEEEAAAAASSSSSEEEEEE help me, i used to be chilled and able to just stay strong though anything, and now if anybody says a little thing bad to me, i usually end up hurting them, but i dont want to, Esspeally my friends

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This is something close but not the same, i realy need help and thought no point in making a new thread, its just happened

Well alot of things happen and past all leaving there mark on me

Around a month ago my dad got raped, one week before that my mum ad split up with him

All the stuff including that and a few things before has made me depressed, I cant see a doctor about it and my parents dont know (I let it out at school)

Now today he diserpired to the shop, he was gone an hour, so when up and looked for him, My mum called him, He said he wasnt coming back

Im scared now, if hes gone and done something, i will end up becoming so ----ed up,
First id have to move, my sister would be taken into care

And finally if i had to move school i would have no friends anymore, then my life truely would have reached rock bottom and then the short way out seems the best

Ok, could anybody help? Cures for depression without seeing a doctor (Hard for me to) And how to stop scaring my self and maybe a way i could pull through this

 

Dude you can't sit there and reflect on all the bad stuff thats happened lately, u need to go do some fun stuff w/ ur friends and try to relieve some of that stress

 

Dude, I have been through worse... don't worry you will be okay. Get out and be happy.

 

Basically, what I do is go around with my friends (which, sometimes will get me down at times, don't know why). But then some positive comments from someone will make me so happy. Also, a hobby is a great way to make yourself happy and occupy yourself. You can also look at this site: www.bash.org It's a funny website with funny quotes. But with your situation I wouldn't want some of it to offend you (as some of it can). I hope I've helped out. Just push forward.

 

Friends don't always help, you need err, some female Pleasure :lol: , i'm sure if you just go out by yourself to a pub, or a club, enjoy your self and meet a girl.

 

dude, dont let stuff get u down, and if it does find ways to turn it around, meet friends, go out, party it up, a bit of female company never hurt anyone always keep yourself happy and with a smile on your face

 

Maybe he isn't the outgoing type.

Just do stuff you really like and get a girl to help you with it

get me ?

 

Look boss, asking people for ways to get over this wont work. We can give you suggestions but everyone is an individual and will have different ways of dealing with this kinda of stress. Just try and take your mind off it and do things that you would've done if all that stuff didnt happen. Try to live as if this stuff never happened. Some people push these thoughts into their sub-consiouse mind and actually forget it because their brain hates that memory so much.

 

Depression isnt just something u can fix, Motaivations a big thing u need to get Past
+ U lose the pleasure from alot of thing, such as activitys, and even being with ur friends (It anit that far yet though)

Well its been 5 hours, He stil gone, Mums rang police, they've come, i think hes topped himself.....That should hurt me to say it right now but it doesnt

 

Stay active, or go to a bar and drink your self to the ground like these people are saying. which will probably make you worse off. just stay active to keep your mind off things. Go running and biking and stuff.

 

Follow what Swordsman just said.

 

well i would say is just go out and have fun. do sometime thats new or that u love doing. try and ghet a new hobby or something that may put ur mind on other things. lifes too short to waste it

 

Yeah, get a new hobby(not being rude or trying to get you away from your current ones)maybe collecting something, skateboarding, bike riding, ect ect ect .

 

a new hobby is a good idea. i like playing poker with friends and unwinding after a stressful day. im not saying take up poker but a new hobby like gaia suggested.

friends are the best way to deal with anything

 

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