I just dont know who to tell it to..i dont want enyone to know and here i dont know anyone exept one of my friend who wont tell it to any one.. ok lets start from the begining.. my name is Dima im living at israel and im 15 YR. i got young parets 35\33 and one of them kinda have an alchohol problem.... at first he was drinking only bear that was few years ago but now he drinking damn to much and he wont listen to me no matter what i say he just keep drinking vodka viski and ----.. now hes not at work he and my mother back from greece and he staarting to work next week... after he back from greece he started to drinking more i dunno what to do. whem my mother came from work he allways drunk like a fat pig.. i know there are doctors that take care of it- of alcohol but thats bull----... he stopped smoking few years ago and dont smoke now..and he smoked about 10 years so i geus he could stop drinking right? maybe only on holydays but not regulary! i just wanted to tell it to some one.. and if i tell it anyone have an advice?
she said they dont listen though. there are actually people that can help, im not sure what they are called where you live, but there some people in the UK that can get you to stop drinking.
游侠巫师 actually u right i should try Gangstarrr whe got here this ppl to but i dun think its true.. they saying they maked like 20 ppl stop drinking but its aint true. i dunno ... after all they ppl who were there may say we stop drinking thx and they drincking any way where no one can see with their frinds..
Well, alot of the time parents don't listen. The best way to do it i suggest, is talk to your mother about it first. After you talk to her, maybe see if you can have a family talk to work things out.
This sounds like a classic case of replacing one addiction with another. When he stopped smoking he replaced that with drinking. The best way to approach it would be a family intervention. Also check out AA site that was provided in the post before mine.
he could try hypnosis. my dad does this and it has excellent effects on smokers and other people trying to kick habbits. However, hypnosis only works if you want it to work, so you cant just go in there cause someone else wants to him to stop, he has to wanna stop himself. Also, dude, u REALLY need to bring this ---- out on the table. The first step to solving a problem is identifying it first. So you, your mum and dad need to sit down and bring out your HONEST feelings. There might be some heat, but it's the only way to go about it. Hope i dont sound too much like doctor phil, but just my opinion. I have delt with a similar situation
Adults can only digest 1 glass of acohol an hour, so he could well be in risk of a heart attack. I suggest you sit down with your parents (when neither of them is intoxicated) and discuss the health issues, this can tend to scare them off the habit.
I have too actually. The best way by far is getting as many people that know him and are aware of his problem as possible to confront him about it. Peer pressure works.
I hate to disagree, but this just isn't true. I would bet my paycheck that >95% of all drinkers know the health risks involved with drinking. To them though, the pros outweigh the cons.
Yeah thx he say that he want to stop drinkin i hope so like u all guys said i really should talk with them about that Thank u thx all and thx for AA site
I hate to disagree, but this just isn't true. I would bet my paycheck that >95% of all drinkers know the health risks involved with drinking. To them though, the pros outweigh the cons. [/b][/quote] Sure He know every one who drinks and smokes know that...
The thing about alcoholics is..they dont think they have a problem, they think its the normal thing to do. Whereas, you and i both know that it isnt. Well i have an uncle who is an alcoholic, he drinks all day/night if he can, but deep down inside he is still a nice man. He didnt think he had a problem until a few months back...he got very ill and had to get some medication to help him come off the drink...he lasted about a month, which was very good for him, but he couldnt cope without his beer..he got the shakes because he needed a drink. His system got used to so much alcohol it couldnt take the strain of having none in there. So of course he went back to the drink. We have talked to him so many times, but he is too far gone to stop now, it might not be too late for your dad if you can get him to listen. Try to get him when he is sober/not had a drink, and explain to him just how much he is hurting you etc Hopefully he isnt violent when he has had a drink? You can get the violent ones, where they kick the sh!t out of you...and you get others that can handle/well not handle, but who are not violent with their drink...
