thats why housewife and a dad that works is a hard thing to manage...both of them gets jealous of each other... maybe you can help your mom by cleaning or that she can get a job so your dad couldnt say those things to your mom. if they really do get together because of you, then you have a big say in their decisions then and i guess its probably very likely that it is up to you to set things right. good luck in the future though.