Marrage Counciling...

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  1. DiabloDj1

    DiabloDj1 Well-Known Member

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    Just some questions...

    How much is it?

    Does it really work?...

    How would I manage making my parents go to it...
    I'm afraid they'd split up after it, or through it or something...
     
  2. Blazeman

    Blazeman Am I Evil?

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    Honestly Marriage counseling depends on how willing your parents are about trying to help the problems they have...if not then it would be a complete waste of time..and i think its about 25 to 50 bucks an your for therapy like that
     
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    hm...

    Ok.. thanks blaze
     
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    Blazeman Am I Evil?

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    No problem..look just some advice...my mother has divorced 3 times i know that its not easy to deal with it at all ...:( ,but honestly you can tell when its coming becuase the arguements never end and there is always a feeling of tention in the air everytime they get around each other..also if the temper of each of them become extremely short EXPECIALLY with you
     
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    This has happened before..where I thought they were gonna break up but..Idk..
    my mom gets sick from my dad cuz he calls her and tells her what she gotta do (like cleaning, laundry, errands etc) and my mom doesnt feel its fiar..
    Its not like he does anything, he has a real job. He does 98% of the work like building stuff, doing yard work, etc, that stuff..but he doesnt do too much with cleaning...and if he does try to clean up things that need the most help, most of my moms things, he gets yelled at by her...

    Usually if I'm in my room and I hear them yelling at eachother, I scream at them..kinda cools them off...

    I do sometimes think theyre only still together because of their kids...
     
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    Get your dad a hooker and you mum a stripper ^.^

    Seriously, I dunno anything ;)
     
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    the guy is serious
    that wasnt needed at all
     
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    DiabloDj1 Well-Known Member

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    Thanks Mcal...

    Nice try lightening the situation but..yea not helpin too much sry..

    I think I'm shaking...

    EDIT: Goin out for a walk.
     
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    My parents went to marriage counseling and i think it helped for maybe like a month but soon after they were back at each others throats. Its been like that since forever they love each other one month the next all hell breaks loose
     
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    Ahh..I see..

    I kinda expect that too.
     
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    thats tough man
     
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    If they seriously do not want to be together, no amount of counseling will help. If anything, it will worsen the situation. If they are willing to help sort things out, go for it. If not, the most you can do is sit back and take it. You religious? If so, pray about it.
     
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    I'm sorry man. Hope it works out between the 2 of them.
     
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    You should prolly just sit down w/ them and talk about things. That get's a lot of problems solved, and the ones that arn't u could see if they are willing to go too counseling.
     
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    Yea its screwed up sometimes just see if you will watch your brothers and sisters (if you have any) and let them go out to eat or something...I Dont know never really been in the situation myself but I guess it would help.
     

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