Yeah i was talking to you and yes i get what you mean. I suppose we just have to live with these kind of people and hope that we dont end up getting into a relationship with them, if you are looking for a secure and loving relationship =) If you are the type of person not looking for a relationship then let them do as they wish, flaunting yourself about can get you sooo many diseases aswel as other things. I suppose it is up to the person and how they want to live their own life
In all honestly I might know alot about Love and such, but i have the biggest fear of actually letting down my barrier to start all over again...just to end up in the same place again
Awww. I know you will find the right girl for you Blazey, you will let the barriers down eventually when you truly believe that you have found the right girl for you. It will be hard at first but you will be ok. My sister is the same, she has been hurt several times, also by abuse (hitting her etc) so she puts the barriers up when someone gets too close. She has let them down once and her ex let her down badly so now she doesnt trust anyone else. Its all about trust, if you trust the person then you shouldnt have any problems, but if they abuse your trust then you are back to where you started. Everyone has there ups and downs so your not alone in that. You will be alright, just dont let them get you down, keep your chin up hun
<3 Kirbir For now i'll leave them up get my Military over with and my nusring school and see how everything ends up when i get that far in life . I know what it takes and i have neither the time or the energy to make someone trully happy.
<3 ya too. Yeah if your not ready there is no need to rush into anything. Everything will fall into place later on in life when the time is right
Yep i believe wholy in that I'm only 18 about to go out away from the parents and start a life of my own
In my opinion cheating is a pathetic thing it only causes more hurt for all parties. But cheating (as is many things in life) neccesary without it we wouldnt need to have devorce lawyers, relationship councelling etc. So as much as i hate it and wouldnt never do it as long as i live i can see the purpose it plays in the stability of our society in general.
As a girl, I can say that not all of us are like that. But yes, there are total bitches in this world. And no guy deserves those. i'm sorry to hear that she aborted your baby and just wants to be friends w/ benefites with you, as you said you obviously love her. It's defenately hard, but try to forget her. There are plenty of women who are looking for a guy like you, and what you're looking for also. Though it's hard to forget someone, even if they hurt you..i've gone through that before. You're obviously looking for someone who will love you back like you love them, and this girl is not the one for you. Seriously, girls like that give the rest of us a bad name. =/ Most of us arn't out for just sex or a rich boyfriend.. just like not all guys are just looking for sex. It's just the bad ones that give the name to ALL of us.
Psssst, she allready has a boyfriend so get ur pants back up. And you allready got Blazewoman Ill give u her msn for 200 creds, and if you allready have it...Then why the HELL are you talking to her here? This isabout Anti-Hero, i'd kick her dude.. Good luck to ya
All I can say about this thread...is WOW! I had maybe, 2? girlfriends so far in my lifetime and that was a young age too. I am now 16 years old and ain't got no girl. Now, I'm not complaining because I'M the one who's putting up the barrier, kinda like Blaze. The reasons could be because I'm afraid of getting hurt, even thou that is *mostly* everyones fear. Its also because I don't feel that I am ready for a relationship right now. I have not found the "One" yet, even thou theres some girls that I think are the one. Ha, this might sound weird, but I've never been kissed in my life before (lips), and I think thats my fault because of the barrier. Its horrible that woman give up a life of her baby. Life is NOT worthless like that. I'm sorry that she has done that to you and that you felt you guys were "soulmates". I really hope soon that you will heal from this and feel that she's not worth crying over. Sex....It is a very interesting topic to talk about because it can mean so many things. Sex, I think, *finally* shows your true feelings to your mate. As for hookers and all that, thats not what I mean. I've thought about sex once in a while, but I don't feel too comfortable about it. Sometimes I see a sex scene in a movie and I think about it, but once I really think about it, I don't feel ready for it. Even thou I dont have a gf AND it might change, I won't do it right away thou. I believe in miracles and I know that there's a miracle that is going to happen to each of you and that miracle can be your mate .
