Merged Post: girls are very complicated.. but guys have to understand that a girl looks at things more emotionaly than men do.. i personally cant wait till i meet my future.. if hes anything like i want.. hes going to do alot of the little important things and make everything count.. thats what more important.. in a relationship.. in order for it to work.. you dont need to do the minimum.. you need to do more.. my x used to leave me little texted messages or ims just saying that he was thinking about me.. it ment alot.. but he soooooo wasnt my type.. i to have had my guy troubles.. from cheating to hey i just want a piece and its not fun.. but when i find the right guy il be glad i waited and didnt give up..
Thats what i used to do My life experiences are some i'll never want to relive or repeat. I have on goal in my mind and thats if some one needs help to show them that anything is possible no matter who you are or where your at or what you do. Remember one valueable thing life isn't fair and it will never be fair. You have to take what you have make the best of it and strive to do better. Always try and be the best at what you do (I miss Counseling) Thanks you put me back in the mood for it again Kirbir :wub:
I am glad i helped you Blazeman is a good listener and advicer from what i hear, if any of you guys need anyone to talk to, both Blazeman and myself are here to help you, just dont be afraid to ask for it
well i have to wonder why guys always think about sex.. everytime you get into a relationship.. one of the first questions is hey.. when can we have sex or other things related to that.. why is it that when that happens the first thing is sex? isnt sex suppost to be a thing after marrage? which i firmly believe it should wait until then.. but ya.. my last two relationships ended because i refused to have sex with them.. do people today think that the only way that they can have a relationship is to have sex? one of my x's cheated on me also.. why whats the point? do people like knowing that they could have more than one person attached to them forever? it means something special when you lose it to the one you marry.. its more of a symbol than "pleasure" .. i would hate to tell my future husband.. oh by the way.. i slept with like 2 other guys.. i mean that takes away everything.. for a girl the "first time" is suppost to be a special thing.. guys here however. take it anyway they can get it.. manipulating girls minds, hearts and what ever they can do.. getting them drunk or stoned.. why is sex so important that it ruins relationships.. arent relationships suppost to be with a person you love and care about, and want to spend every moment together, not sex?
Your first time should be a special time, not in some dirty ally at the back of the shops. You need to both be ready for it, it makes it all that more special when you are truly in love with that person. I know some guys can be obnoxious and yeah all they want out of a girl is sex so they can brag to their friends. Not all men are like this and there are some real good ones out there who are willing to wait for the right moment to take this next step. A relationship should not be based on sex, or at least not just on sex, there are so many things you can do and so many things you can have in a relationship which is far more important than sex. To me people who cheat on their gf's/bf's are idiots, if you are not willing to stick to the one person then why get into a relationship where people are going to get hurt, i dont see the point in this. If i ever felt the need to cheat on my bf, i would finish my relationship, as i know he would also, i doubt that is going to happen though. Some men are pigs and dont deserve a woman in their life, as i can also say some women are pigs also. Both men and women are good at manipulating each other, some may be for different reasons than sex but still some people do it. Why? Well all i can say is thats just the way life is, its a cruel world i know but its not going to get any better, as men and women will not get any better. I think what you are doing is a nice thing (not having sex before marriage) that means that you truly want to find the right guy for you. I honestly think that is sweet, even though some people will be thinking about your post '---- that' or some stupid thing like that. Dont let guys ruin your life, if they are not willing to wait then they aint worth it.
i have morals thats all i can say. i have never cheated on a girlfriend i just aint like that. and i never will be like that
Thats good to hear, i know not all men are bad and that there are some great ones out there, i have one of my own. Us women cant just blame the men as there are women out there just as bad
Its honestly my luck :/ I've always seemed to date the shallow girls of the school...i guess becuase their hot and it fit the whole football player look...
i had a friended that cheated on his girlfriend so we aint friends now. but in my veiw if there is cheatin in a relationship it is pathetic. if u dont want to be with them tell them dont hurt them more by cheatin
if ur tlkin to me u are very nice. i think u might have a present coming to you soon. but people think they can do anythin they want. but those people end up alone. its just karma really
