Im So Distraught

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  1. Flamey

    Flamey Senior Member

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    Well I dont know why it happened or what provoked it, but my fire lieutenet hung himself.

    Him and I got along so long well, I never suspected anything and then all of the sudden.

    Im posting this because I have alot of stuff going through my mind, and I was hoping everyone here could make me feel a little better....

    Well anyway thanks for caring if you do....

    ;(
     
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    im sorry for your loss man...my condolnces are with you, the firecrew and his family


    ryan
     
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    Wow Flamey,

    I'm really sry to hear that. :(

    I know you will get through this though. If you get any new information feel free to post it.
     
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    New Information, my world is falling apart....

    My friends are dumping all their problems on me and my parents think im Peice of shat.... :(
     
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    i was going to find ur SPAM badge, and post it here along with CLOSED since it does soo much to piss me off when u do it.

    but i decided not to.
    he hung himself in a fire? or am i just stupid?

    edit: just do go emo
    edit: why do ur parents think that?
     
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    Yeah I think your just stupid O_O
     
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    why do ur parents thing ur a pos?
     
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    That has to suck, man. I have been fortunate to not know anybody who has killed themselves. Many of my friends have tried, but those were attempts before I knew them.

    Your parents think you're a P.O.S.? Well, who needs parents like that? If anything, they're the P.O.S.'s. Never should a parent say that to their kid. Life sucks, eh? I hope you get through it, man. There's always a light at the end of a tunnel.

    Edit: Second sentence made no sense, if I had left out "tried".
     
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    From what I know about your life...


    Sry to say it man but are they just... weird.... or differnt.....


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    From what I know about your life...


    Sry to say it man but are they just... weird.... or differnt.....


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    how does MY life have any relevance to this?
     
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    I`m very sorry to hear about your loss, both cause it is a death and it was a suicidal attempt. Anyways, I hope things clear up and that train of a brain gets back on track. Good luck!
     
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    ur a hero why wuould ur parents talk bad about u :S
    and edath happens all the time man u should get over it
     
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    That was probably the stupidest thing you could have ever have said to a grieving person. It may be a death, but it's still a loss of someone that he knew/cared about. Sometimes I wonder about people like you...
     
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    why the hell do some people have to be so f***ing insensitive

    im sorry to hear about it mate

    im sure your parents don't, dont let it get to you, i know its hard but you can do it

    good luck

    dja
     
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    no ur wrong. you get over it, you accept it. It takes time but it is for the best, im not saying forget all about the person, but you musn't trouble your own life with something you had no control over.

    if he does not move on, he will forever feel the way he feels now.
    I'm sure he was a good person at heart, he dedicated his life to saving others'.

    please try to be optomistic during times like these.

    im 14, i have experienced things similar wether you choose to believe me or not, do. sometimes i cna be ignorant, unpleasant, and rude- but im also a nice guy and the way i look at life, i always look at whats good and what can be thankful for whever something bad has happened.. if you dont set of my very short explosive temper that is, this last paragraph is mainly to just give you an overview of what i can be-so that u can choose to believe me or not.
     

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