I Like The Same Person As My Friend

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  1. Asirdor

    Asirdor Senior Member

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    lmao, i have the same problem
    i understand y its so hard, its because u dont want to hurt ur best friend in any way, in my position im staying out of the way until either she hints to me(she knows me and my m8 like her) but there are rumours around that she likes me..if she where to ask me out now i wouldnt know what to say
     
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    Unless it's going to be a serious relationship with the girl there's no point in going with the girl. If your friendship with the guy isn't that close then I'd advise you to go with the girl.
     
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    a good way to figure out who she likes more is getting a few other girls together with a couple of your friends (including your best friend) and all hang out, go to the movies, go bowling, concerts, w/e and see who she talks to more often, you or your friend.

    Easy way of not interferring with your friend and still finding out if she likes either of you :)
     
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    Hah you think that's easy. I'm in one the biggest hard spots ever. I'm practically in love with my friends sister. But his whole family is soooo protective of her. And all I ever hear from the dad is "stay away from my daughter" and they don't even know I like her!! There is absolutly nothing I can do. If I even mention that i'm intrested I will be killed without hesitation. So i'm pretty much screwed. I've actually convinced myself that the reason I like her so much is probably because of the fact that she's SOOOO hard to get. It's one helluva challenge.
     
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    Already did it this Friday... A whole bunch of us went to her house to watch Constantine...

    She didn't sit near him... She sat next to me. I just wish I didn't have to leave early to go to work... I would have had more time to talk to her.
     
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    dont just do it once :) do it multiple times.

    you cant expect anything to help/work the first time.
     
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    Hmm,its funny. Me and my friends all like the same ----ing chicks. It sucks when I think about it.
     
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    hard decision and its not bad for a mod to be posting this, mods are people and therefore i "assume" they have lives as well.

    i agree with the few first posters however. He said it first so you have to wait it out, interfearing right in the middle will put you on the "bad list" for both of them, especialy if they get together. Don't ruin something you have (your friendship) for something that isn't definite, ie.: a girlfriend.

    BTW I like Constatine it's a good movie.
     
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    Oh I got it now. Buy her a puppy, then kill it and say your friend did it. She will be all yours and never talk to your friend!
     
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    You have issues.
     
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    What?! If you want a girl, ,anbd your friend wants the same girl, you must make yourself look like the better choice. It's pretty obvious.
     
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    Don't post in this topic again. You have -14 reps I'm sure not many people will care if you are suspended for a few days.
     
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