How Can A Girl Miss You And Like You But Not Wanna Go Out?

REALLY cant be arsed to read the rest of the forum.. But her saying 'But that doesn't mean I wanna date you..'... maybe she was joking? Being slightly sarcastic? Maybe she really does want to date you but because you have taken a lighthearted joke so seriously you have killed any chance or opportunity that you may have had.. Maybe she is simply trying to save the friendship that you guys have and doesn't want to potentially ruin it by allowing you guys to start dating..

Treating her well and ditching your friends for her only shows her that you have put her first. This is a good thing but from my experience women don't seem to be attracted to that at all- they like a challenge. I can't explain it, its just how it seems to be, and yeah, it sucks, but maybe she has realised that she has already got you under her thumb and has realised that there is no more "chase" to the "game" that you guys are playing. She has gained control and already won it, so to speak.

Hell, maybe she was even just lieing about missing you and whatnot.. It's harsh but it could be true..

Then, as I already said, maybe it's simply she just doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Maybe she does really enjoy spending time with you but doesn't want to leave anything to chance because if it does, then there is NO going back to how it was. Trust me, it's unbelieviably hard to recover the friendship, and I speak from experience here.

The long and short of it mate... It all boils down to one word, a word that makes sense..

WOMEN!

 

believe it or not it works both ways <_<

 

I think you are mistaken.

 

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Men want sex and sammichs. Not too much to ask for.

 

I think you are mistaken.
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Not much else

 

Yeah, sorry, unless you get one of those overly emotional men who generate too much estrogen and too little testosterone, we very rarely care about 'love' and playing hard to get. If a guy is playing hard to get... to be honest almost every time it means he isn't interested, or he hasn't figured out he can use you to get to your best friend.

Men are simple creatures, were very physical, and we don't demand 'love' we demand respect. Men like to be respected, being cared for, nurtured, and 'loved' isn't something high on our list of priorities like it is to women. Men have sex drives and tend to be physical, its because of the male psychology, women *can* be the same way just like men can be more like women emotionally.

So yeah... just wear some lingerie, don't argue with my executive decisions and make my damn food when I ask... perfect marriage.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bW_ngRBPLd8

summed up.

 

Girls are pretty confusing, I mean really confusing.

 

Having a Girl Avatar doesn't make you one ... just telling if you were mistaken

 

What does my avatar have anything to do with this?..

 

Your mother.

 

I thought we solved this with the whole kill her solution and what not

 

cause they have their own responsibilities and issues. and its obvious not to rush things unless u want a temporary relationship which imo is bs. you should always try to find ur true love instead. a bad record hurts you.

 

Rubbish.
If everyone waited till they found their supposedly "True Love" then nobody would ever end up together.

It's a strange coincidence that everyone's soulmate also happens to live in their immediate area.

 

What if your true love ends up being an animal or inanimate object?