How Can A Girl Miss You And Like You But Not Wanna Go Out?

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  1. Prince Zainx

    Prince Zainx The Dark Prince

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    Honestly dude this is the circle of life.

    You'll never know till you drown and pull yourself back up how to swim and the same thing goes for Women and dating. Try to be comfortable, don't be bitchy or too hard on her or anyone else, and you'll get one in due time.

    Oh and stop bitching about how she misses you but doesn't want to go out...missing you is saying that she is comfortable around you as a friend GAWD...not huggy and kissy thingies...lol

    lmao btw the guy above this post made a good point..
     
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    That's it +1

    Same problem here, she said she liked me but it would never work out.
    Now I'm not giving here any attention and she keeps calling and asking for attention.
     
  3. Greasy Pete

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    it's called she's playing you.

    don't talk to her for a week and she'll be all on that.
     
  4. nanSTA

    nanSTA Senior Member

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    She probably likes you more than a friend, but less to start a relationship.

    or

    Like Sock said, she doesn't think you like her. Tell her, things may work out for the best.
     
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    No, its called her putting him in the friend zone.

    Guys who post this shit on GR don't seem to realize that there are 2 groups of women in their life... friends who are girls and girlfriends. They do not mix.

    In the rare event that if he stops talking to her for a week or two and shes like OMG WHY HAVE YOU LEFT ME? and he played the sympathy card or something similar all he will accomplish is her dating him for a few weeks until she realizes that kissing him is like kissing her brother / dad and then it fucks up both the friendship and the relationship.

    This isn't to say that your girlfriend can't be your friend (which is rare that people want to spend so much time with one another and talk about things friends talk about when romantically involved), but your girl friends can't be your girlfriend (at least not if you intend for it to last any period of time and you actually value their friendship).
     
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    I'm currently dating a girl that I've been friends with for years, the friendzone is breakable ;)
     
  7. dementia

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    Breakable, yes.
    Trustworthy in terms of how often its breakable and maintainable? Not very.

    Frankly, I don't do girl friendships andI have only been a friend to one girl after we broke up, it simplify things.

    The only reason I am still friends with one of them is because shes my first love and were basically still best friends. She keeps trying to get back with me but she isn't my type anymore. Maybe after shes out of college...
     
  8. Greasy Pete

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    friendzone isn't always as permanent as the movie "Just Friends" makes it too be.

    (for those of you basing your knowledge after a goddamn movie...)
     
  9. "Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country!"


    @On-Topic - Girls your age (well, our age) are subject to the dislike of commitment, and at this point in their lives they may not treasure the qualities you possess. Give it a few years of being good friends, something is bound to happen.
     
  10. dementia

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    If you think that movie even created the term you have issues. It is a play on words from a phrase which has been effect as long as my mom has been in the dating scene at the bare minimum. That movie is good though.

    Too bad its completely unbelievable.
     
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    Your a ------ing idiot.
     
  12. bluefalcon_ad

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  13. Greasy Pete

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    ye ye
     
  14. BabyLeo

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    Care to elaborate? I'd love to know what you disagree on.
     
  15. Daecu

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    Its better to HAVE loved and lost then to NEVER have loved at all.
    Is the actual saying btw.

    And yea, find a different girl.
     

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