People you cant make fun of someone for asking for help over internet..Its sometimes easier to ask for help as your not facing them face to face.
i say get a grip. You know what you want. You have the advantage of seeing how your friends have got what you want. USE THE ADVANTAGE. if your going to come on here and sulk about something you "want" instead of trying, then you obviously dont realy care. Your going to say "Wrighty I have tried" SSOOOO? Try again, try harder! I understand how you feel tbh. Recently, i said to myself, damn your a bit overweight. My friend kept saying im a fat ------ as a joke but it really hurt. SO i looked at myself and realised i was getting fatter. So i got of my ass and went form a run. Now im running 2 miles each day and its working. So m8 if you want something really bad, quit sulking and just do it!
It's simply a matter of learning to balance accepting what you have with realizing how you can succeed. I balance between a 24-28 hr job, an internship, and high school classes. I often times used to be stressed because I would push myself to do everything all at once and to rush and see where I was going to be in two years (college, basically). The problem with that was that I didn't slow myself down to come to peace with what I have. Step by step, I got the hang of doing my schoolwork w/o stressing myself out and going to work w/o constantly feeling like it's more hassle than it's worth - even if I still hate my job. I still plan on going to a good college and getting into a political career, but you gotta take the challenges as they come or else you'll crack under your own paranoia in trying to accommodate everything you want to succeed to.
