Girls That Send You Mixed Signals

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  1. XxCarbinexX

    XxCarbinexX Well-Known Member

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    Rape is the only option.
     
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    Take her out to a movie and hook up. :D

    Don't stick anything in a popcorn bag like the Chappelle Show, that won't work.
     
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    Talk to her about it. You'd be surprised how well it works. :D
     
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    I've gone through a couple in the days and I can say the best way to get someone thinking about you is to text them, or call them on the phone and actually have a conversation.
    If you don't have any balls, I suggest texting because a phone call will just end up awkward and resulting in her getting put off.
    And for ------'s sake type properly when texting, just because you're using messages doesn't mean that you get to talk like a retard.
     
  5. FlanteJuice

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    lol watch Chapelle's Block party and she probably wont hook up with me

    Well I think I should be a little subtle first and just hang out, go out etc, and then hook it in. She might not be ready yet, if I just come out and plain say it.




    "wht u doin, i c that u got hw" SCRATCH THAT SH**
     
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    You sound like a pussy, to be blunt.

    Heres a rough stat for you, 80% of the time you will be shot down. She may be 'special', etc. to you, but your young, obviously, there will be literally hundreds of other possibilities and at the bare minimum tens of women whom you will find 'special'. Ask her out, plain and simple. Let her know you've liked her for a while if you want, and you just want to take her out to a restaraunt and a movie sometime, even if as just friends, if she says yes, awesome, if she says no, so what? She said no, get used to it, it'll happen often, life goes on, no reason to miss sleep over it.

    Your casual comments like, 'oh maybe we should go out a few times as friends and then see if I can ask her on a formal date', etc. is what is going to land you in the friend zone, where you will NEVER have a chance to be with her, period.
     
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    Well if it was me.. I read she broke up with a friend? Umm I'd stay away, it will only lead to trouble. I've seen girls break up with my friends and they stat haning with his friends to make him mad and jealous. Even tho they say their not. I'd bail..
     
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    The man has a point. Your a -----, no jks.

    But seriously, dont die woundering mate. In relationships you only get out what you put in ( ;) ), so just ask her.

    Like Dem said the worst thing that can happen is she says " no " and forget the pride B.S lifes too short.

    Well put. You can add " Date Guru " to your extensive list of abilities and talents.
     
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    heh, I guess I'm kinda love sick. I'm quite tired of meeting women who just want to have fun, that love to blow your money and in the morning when you might end up with an std. What ever happens, happens fk, I'll put the advice you said into consideration.




    Who knows , I'll take that risk.
     
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    Talk with her more when/if you're comfortable, and then try becoming better friends, it takes a while for something to click. Like Dem said though, it might not click, but im pretty sure you're man enough to live on. Good luck.
     
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    I'd be all over her the minute she started sending signals.

    (all over her as in totally hitting on her and asking for a date of course)

    (not rape...)

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    Of course you would, your black, and you drive a minivan with 'free candy' on the side of it, you just take what you can get.
     
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    I agree with what dem said. You just gotta say f-ck it and take the chance. I was in that situation recently as well, but now we are going to some party for a friend tomorrow night. So try it and see what happens. You might be surprised.

     
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    ive got the same sorta problem the now and im just like ------ it what ever happens i dont care
    although she didnt break up with my friend theres another guy tryin to get into her to ------ him though if he says anything just knock him out
    the worst she can say is no :)
     
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    For a tough guy Dem, you really love to cry alot lol
    Don't worry, some people are emotional I guess.
    oh...and I don't drive.

    You're* by the way.

    The more you wonder the harder it gets.
    Don't fall madly in love with her.
    As for pride, if you have too much pride you'll stay single forever lol

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