Girls - Crushes, Problems, Nervousness, Etc.

Discussion in 'Spam Heaven' started by JordanGen, Sep 19, 2007.

  1. [.BC.] bsk84091

    [.BC.] bsk84091 Well-Known Member

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    yepp and when u talk to her dont like stare or look all around cause its easy to tell that your nervous, like me i look into every girls eyes but i dont stare blindly and what not. once u get to know her start asking what are u doing friday etc... it works bro, good luck also. The more confidence you have the better you will be, dont always try to talk about yourself either, dont be shy to ask questions about her and what not. Dont stalk her either that will just freak her our a little
     
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    call her by her name, don't say you, talk in the third person -its studly, especially if you she doesn't know ur name, be like

    "Todd thinks your pretty hott" - u say

    "Oh really, can u get me his number- she says

    Then u go and score
     
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    xD talking in third person owns.
     
  4. [.BC.] bsk84091

    [.BC.] bsk84091 Well-Known Member

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    haha shes gonna be like who's todd and ur gonna studder
     
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    Just be easy. Bring her into a conversation, and make sure she's comfortable. Find out what she likes and dislikes, and ask her to hang out. Become a frined before a boyfriend, I'd say that's important.
     
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    Why would you want to be with her, when you hardly even know her. Get to know her first, then figure out if you like her or if you just see her as a piece of meat you want to get inside of.
     
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    Okay. In all seriousness....I don't think going up to her and just plain telling her please be my girlfriend...

    Get to know her friends and talk to her as well. If your in the same last period try and talk to her and get her as your partner of some sort. Definitely try and make her laugh as Thug said...a little bit of sarcasm here and there helps too. As soon as you think you and her are pretty good friends try and nudge her a bit...you know just like make fun of the little things you can both laugh at, because she will probably point something out on you and you both can laugh at it.

    I love this part because I can definitely work with it. When you hear she likes you seriously go in for the kill....I mean date. I like to go big or go home...Like make up some cool ideas for asking her out (in a non-creepy way). Just an example, I did actually get one my friends to get the girl to look outside the window of her house and I did have a little setup with a sign and stuff....( and I did do this quickly so her parents did not see a little skinny asian on their front lawn that they could easily chase down). Another thing I did was found this best spot that over looks our hometown (looks great) and got a bouquet of roses and placed it on the picnic table that overlooked the city. These are just a few ideas to nudge your romantic side of the brain :P. Just don't wait a very long time because girls don't wait forever...I have learned this the hard way..
     
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    You can't avoid her and expect to get noticed. Make eye contact and if she sees you smile and calmly look away. Don't avert your eyes as she looks or you look like a pervert.

    Talk to her, make eye contact, and if she likes you it will lead to flirting. Never directly walk up to a girl and ask her out if she doesn't know you. Chances are you will get rejected. My girlfriend and I go on picnics alot. Go late at night up in the hills and have a picnic and watch the stars and talk.
     
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    You guys are noobs. Theres two options:

    Stalking is a great way to find out who shes hangs around with because maybe you know a person that knows her well and that will help greatly. [​IMG] try to be like that guy behind a tree but in school environment so I'm guessing lockers or people.

    Option 2: You cant just walk up to her and say " Hey wanna be my friend" shes gonna think your a damn freak. For the first few days just say hi, open the door for her w/e else you can think of that isn't really hard to do. After those few days try to sit closer to her. Once you've done that Ask her for help on your h/w or a question. Try to extend the question so the conversation will drag on to something else. Everything needs to be done in steps in order to have a successful relationship.
     
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    short and to the point
    just talk to her small talk...just say hey chances are if she doesnt know you she not interested but if you takl to her then shell know who you are and you just get confortable around her...
    my guess is though (no offence) that you dont date a lot of girls it just takes time
     
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    Talk to her, sit with her, make her laugh.
    Making a girl laugh is the best way to get her to like you.
    Just talk to her in your class, ask her for help, start any sort of conversation.
     
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    LOOOOL. That's a bad idea. Do not go in for the kill. First you stalk, then go in for the kill.
     
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    Talk to her about her old city/school.

    Is this city the same? You miss your old friends? How's this school treating you? etc
     
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    Exactly.
    Talk to her for a while,
    THEN grab her boobs.
    If she slaps you, it means she likes you, keep going. Then, if she says shes calling the cops she's being kinky.
     
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    Thanks for the advice, everyone. I've read every word, and laughed at a few of them (you know which ones ^_^ ) ... And I definitely don't mean to just go up to her and ask her out, even I have the common sense not to do that, lol. She's stared at me a few times, but I think it's just because she's interested in the work I'm doing. And I've asked her if she needed help a couple times when she was pushing an instrument back to class (since the class is band, so the whole group thing might not run smoothly). Hopefully it will progress, and I will have the nerve to start some un-awkward conversation :) Keep the discussion coming, I'm 100% enticed, lol.
     

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