Girl Help

Ever consider that not all females are sub-conscious whores who think of nothing but draining the life and money out of males for personal gain? Considering you think you know males because of your looks (which I doubt is even you, get a sign of paper and put your GR name on it and hold it up and take a picture) and ability to probably attract the 1 man you think you can score with sexually and on a money basis, who honestly doesnt give a damn about you, as it may as well be an indirect form of prostituion, the more he gives you, the more you give to him, the catch is your ont giving up anything special (god knows the rest of the town knows what hes having for dinner tonight), and hes the one forking out the cash. Get some self respect and start aiming for a serious relationship, its more rewarding in the end.

In response to the topic, however, I wouldnt get her anything expensive or jewelry related for valentines day. Jewelry is NOT how you win over a woman. Judging by your post, I would say you are a teenager (ish), and jewelry is NOT the way to win a woman over emotionally so that the relationship lasts longer, if anything it makes her think your loaded and she can use you as a get our of jail free card. Buy her something simple, generic, cliche if you will... Take her out to a nice dinner, get her a teddy bear and maybe get some custom embroidering done to it so that it says that special message to her, and a dozen roses, 6 red and 6 white, with a mini box of chocolates. Basically anyhting a non-conceited girl could remotely ask for on valentines day. Anything extravagant for a first impression is not a good thing, now next year if your still going together, yeah, extravagant is a good thing.

The most important thing to a girl is being yourself. Girls have this ability to tell when your lying, or when something is unnatural to yourself. Don't make a big deal of things, make it casual, let her see you, dont let her see ALL of you, but let her see you, not what someone from the internet tries to say has had the most success in the long run, but something that relates to you and her (hence the embroidered teddy bear thing). Sure, its not a piece of jewelry, but if the difference between a piece of jewelry, and a moreso heart warming gift is the difference in her and dating you, she isn't worth it regardless.

Believe me, girls that ask for more are girls not worth investing your true time in. In the end they will use you, abuse you, and then throw you in the trash, nice guys do finish last, especially those nice guys who don't have a solid head on their shoulders because their brain has turned to mush over thinking about a girl. Also, coming to a graphics forum with pre-pubescent children being a large portion of the site isn't the best way to get relationship advice.

It may be harsh, but its blunt, its up front, and it further extracts the obvious. Women who want to be treated poorly, want to be given items, and want to have 'special' treatment constantly, and those are the only times they want to be around you are not worth your time.

 

Now Dementia is a ladies man that was well said and i would have to agree with every word he said go simple roses and chocolates with a nice dinner

 

Listen to Dem he makes alot of sense most of the time. You've always gotta make sure you are happy in a relationship, its your job to make shes happy but you have to be. Make sure shes true to you if shes your friend i can't see her cheating or asking for money if you get what i mean.

Valentines is just a holiday made up by the card sellers so they can make a bit more money, i personally arnt taking it too serious, im taking my girlfriend out for a nice meal, buying her the usual Chocolates and maybe a small gift but im not spending that much.

I'd wait a bit to buy her a valentines, like you said shes your best friend and ur feelings could only be that. I made the mistake of going out with a work friend and she was a really good friend at the time and it didnt work between both of us, infact we dont even speak (could be down to the fact she now stalks me) but you have to be careful when dating friends, you dont wanna ruin your friendship with her but also you shouldnt keep ur feelings quiet i think as she's your best friend you shld tell her how you feel. She should hopefully then be able to help you because as your best friend if she can't look past the fact you like her then she really isnt that good of a friend

 

Tiffany item 2 is the nicest and a necklace is the best because it's nearer the heart.

 

I think the one with the hart is best

I have same problem but yea im 14 so lets go on

 

Well, man I suggest dont buy her something yet, just try to work it out w/ her 1st. GL

 

Alright I have read everyone's Replies and I thank everyone for there advice but I am taking Stasus and Dementia's advice because they are the most non-sugar coating people and they are straight up, So im not gonna buy her anything and Im not going to be as generous as I was , and to Stasus - I know it was her best friend because I was there on the trip for 3 days though becase I had to get back on Sunday, she came back wed. So it is a possiblity that i will consider. And yeah it was dumb of me to post a thread with this but I cant really talk to any of my friends because they would laugh and I dont need that right now I just need some straight up people and thanks for everything everyone .

and damn Stasus you need to change your avartar with for your Picture

 

the third one would be great

 

Tiffany item 2