Well I am also having a private profile and I don't think there is anyway you can view them except for having the option of adding him/her. I have even removed the button for ADD as a Friend from my profile ;-> BTW Whats your profile link, I'll add you up!
Doesn't this scream irony? MY PROFILE IS PRIVATE AND YOU CAN'T ADD ME AS A FRIEND BECAUSE IM PARANOID, BUT LETS BE E-BUDDIES AND I'LL ADD YOU OVER EVERYONE ELSE!
I love hypocrites. Facebook is the best form of overall communication between large groups of people, as well as individuals, in a organized and simple manner.
Definitely not for small groups. Possibly for large groups. Although I prefer to use some for of IM, or just simply call them. Never got into the whole MySpace/Facebook thing. Just doesn't fancy my tickle.