Being 17, I have been with one girl. High School can be a biiiit tougher for those sorts of things, but I know many of my friends who have gone on to graduate and engage in the fabled one-night stands, so I definately agree with you. I, being a naive teenager am in no position to say that "relationships make sex better" and the likes, but right now it is what I believe, but then again it's also an opinionated thing and opinions can neither be right nor wrong, but they sure as hell can be stupid. I had been dating this girl for roughly 1 year before we finally did anything and I'd say it's worth it (she's an athlete (gymnast, dancer and more) and I have no idea whether or not that affects anything). I know for a fact that the wait time goes down the older you get and the more experience you have. Now, moving to the stud-slut controversy... I think it's like this because women are generally considered the ones who are "in control" of the sexual decisions and that they're usually meant to be very conservative of the whole sex-thing.
Wise post for a 17 year old, you should come into the IRC some time if you have a sense of humor worth $0.02. Also, lemme put it this way... sex is a treasure the first few times you have it (and by few I don't mean like 4-5, you get what I mean), but after a while, sex becomes sex, and relationship becomes relationship, and the two, while they mesh, are not necessary to enjoy either of them (ie, you can have enjoyable sex without a relationship, and a relationship without sex). You find sex with 1 person while in a relationship is equally as good as 1 night stands, exceptions being those that leave you with a burning sensation in your crotch, or the rabid she beast you picked up one night, of course.
Okay, so I get what you are saying. I admit that it isn't a problem with the hygiene but I think anyone would want to have sex with someone clean and nice smelling. But whatever, you do have a point there mate, she does not suck and is sexy enough to be slept with!
I'd view worse upon her if she was a man. Being a woman I can understand what she did (men are rarely nymphos compared to women) and I just personally would never want to have sex with her simply because all she wants is sex =/
My last girlfriend, who was also the one I lost my virginity with... is 29 years old and had sex with 26 men before me. I was her friend for years before we got involved and never cared about such details, nor did I care when we got involved. The fact that she had no problem with telling me AND being honest about it, as the girl in the video was, made me like her even more. Although we're no longer in a sexual relationship, we are still good friends to this day and go running together quite often. Women who have sex with a lot of men are frowned upon mostly by which sex? Men or other women? As men are known to do this more then women, and all of you seem to have stated that no one seems to care, would it not make sense for another man to think nothing of it? It seems to me that it may just be the women who are unfulfilled and full of regret are the ones bitching about it, with their husbands (who really don't care) taking their side for the sake of being married and not wanting to piss off their wives. Course I won't deny that some men may be grossed out by it. I will however say that we're human, so get over it. ^_^ Further more, I think that Laura is very attractive and intelligent, but what the old hag says is true. Meeting people over the internet is always dangerous. However who's to say that you're not just as likely to meet a "psycho-path" in public as you are online? That's my 2 cents.
^ Okay that was wonderful mate, but I think Genesis there also had a point but still I'd say as Genesis said that all she wanted was sex. That means, no emotions and I believe that emotions are necessary for a relationship to work, otherwise, One Night Stands FTW!
That is quite weird.. But, if that is her decision what can we do against it? The men probably wanted it themselves aswell, hence the group of the name.