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thanks to the people that tried to help...closed because it was becoming a spam fest.

 

a girl of 15 is very vunerable and very naive so try and guide her in the right direction and the right path. tell her shes got alot going for herself and getting into the wrong crowd and stuff will ruin her chances for something great.

im not too good with problems like these but i hope it helps

Cyrus Out

 

let her do it, many people do it, its life. I know loadsa people that are like that and i just ignore them, its there choice

 

isn't that like saying suicide is someone's choice and jsut let them do it?

 

Cyrus you rather smart, listen to what Cyrus has said hes right. ^_^


I'm only 13. :blink:

 

I agree with u banana that was one of the stupidest posts i have ever read in my life, i feel dumber now that ive read it... anyway, yeah if she really means that much to u and u know u mean that much to her, u should really get the point across that she shouldn't do that s---. I dont think u can do much about the bf situation, thats her choice. If hes some dumbass he'll get dumped sooner or later so u gotta just let it pass. Hope this helped some

 

Ok, what you do is have a talk with her(maybe a short one maybe a long one). Talk to her about why she is doing the things she is doing. And generally wait for time to pass, she might get over doing the things she is or not. Let Fate Decide. <_< ^_^

 

either ask her out and show her the "right" way or dont bitch. Simple as that.

Do you know how many people in highschool smoke/drink... Guessing from my highschool its about 95%. Is it really that bad... because they drink/smoke now does that mean she'll be a failure down the road?
More than likely no. In some cases, yes, people become addicted, but more often than not, they come out fine. Its an experience... teenagers are curious, and this is just another thing they like to try out.

I am 17, but i dont touch any of the stuff... peer pressure is VERY intense, and im extremely tempted to try drinking. I dont because i think about how it will affect my sports, but most other people dont have something to turn to and rely on to avoid it.

 

everyone drinks
maybe you should get her off the weed
Ask her out.

 

LOL, Intarnets.

 

*silence for 10 minutes*

If your going to say that dont post....

Be positive, I know I sound like a total idiot. It's probably just me, looking at it wrong. If so feel free to correct me.

Dont call me bad things. ;(

 

It sucks that u even have to go through with somethin like this... i know how it must hurt for u to watch her just slip away from your grasp. What you have to do is convince her that wat she is doin is wrong.. this might even make her mad at u, but later on, she will prolly forgive u.. i'm prolly not the most reliable source to ask help from, but i'd say expose her to things that will make her wanna quit doin wat she does...........how?, thats for u to decide because there are many ways.

 

Sitting here and whining to people he'll never meet and are generally teenagers who know dick-all about love its pointless. If you dont have the balls to go up and ask her out, chances are you dont have a chance with a relationship.

You have to face the statistics that teenagers will drink... teenagers will smoke, teenagers will do drugs. Its a phaze in life most people do, when you move out and have to rely on nothing but you're own income most realize they gotta smarten up, but until then why not have fun.
"You're only young once"...
^ live by it...

Either ask her out and changer her mind about going down the road of drugs/drinking, or let her be... like i said, if you dont got the balls to ask her out, you dont need to be in her business.

 

Nah bra. Check it. old dude is asking a GAMING and GRAPHICS forum about his ----ed up life issues. Young buck needs to just chill, live a little bit, and let ---- happen. It happens EVERY day, he's not going to change the rotation of the earth.

 

Spoken like a tru pothead