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  1. Flag

    Flag Well-Known Member

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    Rofl still... ever since the second date we have grown really close. This was after she had sex with the other guy.
     
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    Obviously you dump her. Remove her from your life. Don't become friends. Never forgive her. If she breaks your trust once, she can NEVER be trusted. There is no such thing as a second chance. Dump the bitch and forget her. If she's cheated on you once she will do it again. Simple as that.
     
  3. LL COOL JEW

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    well it sounds like her dad is ------in up her mind so she is doin ---- like that, i would stay with her
     
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    Find out who she cheat with and meet him. Don't tell him who you are, just meet him. If he looks like Brad Pitt, chances are she loves you and loves him more. But if you think that its a fair competition, and you love her sooo much, Try winning her back. Or you can cut the guy's d**k off.
     
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    Rofl... I know who it was and I used to be friends with him we just lost contact.
     
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    Why don't you cheat on her.. evens it up, doesn't it?
     
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    I'd seriously dump that bitch. She can't even get her hands of another guy in a period of 1 month? That's just pathetic! Obviously she doesn't cares too much about you.
     
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    If this was a movie I'd say that you find some girl who looks like your gf, get her drunk, have sex with her and dump her =D

    Oh well, guess this is real life then. Anywayz I got a girl too but haven't got into the situation you are now. I think that you just need a serious talk with her and let her decide who she wants; you or her ex. That way you know for sure, even though you don't like the answer. But it would allow you to get on with your life.
     
  9. kirbir

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    Come on guys she made a mistake, it also depends on how long she was with her ex, she had broken up with him and started in a new relationship, her head would be so far up her own arse and she wouldn't be thinking straight.

    The question you need to ask yourself hun is, do you trust her? Are you willing to forgive her for her mistake? Would you use this against her if you guys had an argument? etc.

    If you can forgive her you HAVE to forgive her fully, no holding grudges, no bringing it out in an argument, it has to be 100% trust on your part, if you can not do this then there will be no relationship between you guys.

    If you love her as much as you say then i think you should give her a second chance, why finish with her if it will only make you feel bad? Everyone deserves a second chance but it is up to the person who has been hurt if they want to give them a second chance.

    You guys need to have a serious conversation about everything she has told you, her cheating, drinking etc and get everything out in the open. If you can't do this then to be honest hun there is no point in you staying with her. She needs help with her drinking, are you willing to do everything that you can do to help her? Will you be there for her when she needs you? A relationship isn't just based on trust, sex etc, it is also based on whether you can be there for your partner when they need you the most.

    Anyhow, it is up to you and ONLY you if you wish to give her another chance, ask yourself all the questions up there and see if you would be able to do that and decide on what you think and how you feel.

    Good luck :)
     
  10. Flag

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    Thanx... I would +Rep but its in offtopic. ;)
     
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    np and no need to rep me i like to help :)
     
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    Well there was alot more to the story which I will not go into detail here but long story short the rest of the story was told to me by a friend and when I asked her she said it was true.

    I broke up with her. She started to cry and I told her to go shut the ------ up. I feel better! :D
     
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    So you learned that he had sex with someone else from your friend ? how many time passed ? (i mean when he made sex with someone else and when you found it)
    I could give him a chance if she had told me the truth but learning it from a friend wow
     
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    Your pants eh?
    good man drop the slut.
     
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    It was really funny because when I did she started crying even louder and I walked away smiling while everyone ran over to see what was wrong. :D
     

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