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  1. Flag

    Flag Well-Known Member

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    Well, today really sucked for me. [Not to be emo or anything because I love life]. Anyways one of my friends told me that someone started spreading a rumor that my girlfriend started drinking and drank and drove the other day. So i did what was obvious and talked to my girlfriend and we had the whole drugs are bad talk and then she tells me that a week after I asked her out she had sex with another man, but not just any random guy but her ex. [Note: we are only 17] She said that she loved me and that she was just really sad that he broke up with her and then he came back a week later... and well you know.

    What should I do. I really do love her but she really has started to drink and I was pretty hurt she slept with someone else after we were already going out. I really don't know what to do. She did tell me outright and honestly but I still feel betrayed.
     
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    You are only 17 bro. I'm 18 and I drink. But the truth of the matter is, girls will come and go at this age. Will you be with her for the rest of your life? Probably not. You can always get a girl who will care and not do that ---- to you.
     
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    How long have you been going out?
     
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    1 month yesterday. And she has a family that is ------ed. Her father drinks and has beaten her and that is why I am trying to get her away from that alcohol. =/
     
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    If it's only been a month then I say you should find someone else.
     
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    If you cant trust her now what future do you have with her?

    And also what do expect to happen when you both go to college. If i were you i would just have fun and put her on the backburner and see what happens. If she chooses to hang out with you let her...if not..oh well.
     
  7. Majin

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    dump the hoe.
     
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    is she hot?
     
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    No I am dating a fat chick. Of course she is hot.
     
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    like they say "there's plenty of fish in the sea." chances are, once a cheater, always a cheater. if you're only 17, i wouldnt go through the hassle, unless you really know that she is somethin special.
     
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    I have liked her since 10th grade... It took me two years to convince her to go out with me. After our first date she said she regretted not agreeing to go out with me before. I love her and I am torn dude.
     
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    you love her after 1month, i doubt it
     
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    Okay you "love" her...and the fact that she cheated with you.

    Seriously...if its only been a month and she cheated on you, dump her and find someone else who is worth your time.

    Cause dood, your wasting your time on that whore. Seriously, a month and you love her? Haha...that's funny...
     
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    LMFAO i can imagine some of you as a 14 year olds.
     
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    Haha, indeed I am 15...but man...if you don't got the common sense that a girl has cheated on you...then you are one dumb human being...
     

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