I went to college with many guys that built a small empire on hundreds of nights of meaningless sex. Of course, they will never know what love is, because living such a life trivializes the whole affair.....If you can share such a thing with someone else, and just roll over and move on to the next conquest with no emotional flack, you'll never allow yourself to get close enough to 'The One'. [/b][/quote] *nods* maybe the question should be, "can you really love if you only focus on sex?" okey the things kinda go hand in hand.. but well shallow, meaningless sex might satisfy you for the moment, but you will probably realise later what a lonley life that really is... I dunno sex and love should go hand in hand but if I have to choose one it's defently love..