22 Year Old Guy Having Sex With 16 Year Old Girl

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  1. Coolguy

    Coolguy Well-Known Member

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    Look, I know MANY kids, as in under 16 who had sex. Ok, so shes 16, and hes 22. When you were 16, dont you think you were smart enough to know what you were doing? not only that, but woman mature faster than men. So 16 year old woman, is pretty old, or at least old enough to make her own decisions. My cousin, was 18, she slept with some guy who was 32. What about those sluts that sleep with old rich people, like 20 year olds with 60 year old guys who are ------ing rich as hell.
     
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    Coolguy, that makes it nasty, not illegal, which this is, even with consent, unless its occurring outside of the nation.

    Thats the point, everyone at 16 *thinks* they are capable of making adult decisions, but they aren't. Most of them aren't anyways.

    Its useless to attempt to talk sense into children however (and no, thats not implied by age, thats implied by maturity in your decisions).
     
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    lol randomness .. how would you feel about a 16 year old guy with a 22 year old girl ? ... i bet you would view it differently. i guess as a parent u are very scared for your child and want to keep them safe from bad encounters you might have had . the problem is to be honest if they really want to then they will doesnt matter what u say. cant lock them up. best thing is to speak to your child at an early age about the seriousness in the issue ... now im not saying wait till shes 3years old .. but when there 10 years old or so .. just so when they do end up in a bad situation they can remember what you taught them. i guess its a difficult issue because if you try to lock up your child as in forbiding them to do what they want all the time then they will never turn to you when they are in real need or when problems arise.
     
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    i just have to say that it is sompletely wrong!!

    a girl 16 years old shouldnt even be thinkin about having sex at that age. she should be out enjoying her life (not sexually)

    16 is the age to have fun not to be making stupid mistakes!!
     
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    Honestly, I don't see any reason to be mad. But let me ask you this, would you be just as enraged if it were a 22 year old woman wanting to have sex with a 16 year old male? A lot of people say no, have you ever pondered why? It's sexist stereotypes that society refurbishes day in and day out. I can't say I am free with them, I won't let my daughter date til she's 30 but at 16 my son will have his own condom stash. Do I think it's fair? No, it's just what generally happens.

    Having sex at a young age doesn't make a persona horrible person. I lost it at 17 and my best friend lost it at 15. Are we horrible people? No. Are we idiots? Hell no. Once you start rebelling from your parents you pretty much set yourself up to make major decisions in your life. Once you do that, you're responsible enough to choose to have sex, or not.

    Now, I'm not going to say that you need to move out and get a job and support yourself, because at 16 that's going to screw your life. But I'm 18, in college, and helping support my household. I'm at an ----- stage of adult life. I do what I want when I want, but I have the responsibilities as an adult with roommates.

    Getting back on topic. If the girl wants to do it let her. It's her prerogative, we can't keep bad things from happening to everyone.
     
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    i agree with the last line of your statement but if it was my son who was 16 and he wanted to have sex with a 22 year ols woman i would personally beat the crap out of him

    and u said that we cant stop bad things from hapening to everyone but what kind of people would we be if we didnt at least try
     
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    Who says its a bad thing? I bet most of you are 13-14 on this forum. I lost my virginity when I was 13 and I knew exactly what I was doing. She's fricken 16 she knows what she is doing. She's not being raped, she CONDONES THE SEX. Grow up and stop getting into other peoples business.
     
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    ugh thats not so right, but then i can look @ the other side of people who marry people like 7-8 years younger then them.. i dont know i think it all depends on the background of the story
     
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    sad but cruel reality of the u.s....
     
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    now what if you turned out to be a father at 13?? A 13 year old father who hasnt established nothing in terms of supporting the baby ... this doesnt just go for you but many kids on this board since they are like around that age ... and turning into a father at such a young age is :censored:
     
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    I definitely understand you.
    I'm not a father, but despite that I can imagine it being tough on you.
    All I can say, if she wants it too, there's not much you can do about it.
     
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    She's underage... ever heard of the term Jailbait? He's 22... Yeah that's pretty cool, but if he was that cool he would get girls his own age, right?. The guy must be pretty lonely and desperate do date this girl. My two cents.
     
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    You would be surprised to know how much this goes on, theres quite of few people in my highschool that are dating or just having sex with people 5+ years older then them. As a dad, you should be worried a bit, just make sure you raise her with good values and respect and she'll be fine most likely.
     
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    Well its her choice dood...
     
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    Jesus christ man.... and i thought that guys in my senior class going out with 9th graders was ------n stupid..... but god damn a 6 year age difference is so dumb
     
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