Alright Got This Girlfriend Problem

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by matt1987, Aug 26, 2005.

  1. SlayThem

    SlayThem Well-Known Member

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    thats tough but i dont kno much bout women... :P
     
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    Well, from what you are saying, both of you are really patient and understand eachother in what they are feeling, so that mean you have even more chance. If you can pass trought this then everything will be more easier in your future, well for you two. As I said make the more things you can do with her, even if she's not after you, try to keep her webcam and your open the most time you can even if your not in front of your computer. Until then, keep communicating the most you can in your day. Knowing that both of you have their tickets will help you to wait. And as I said, if you need to talk or take out some stress and no one's on feel free to pm me ><.

    Also, she need to know that you love her, I mean, I know that she know it RIGHT now but, you could send her some flowers or stuff like that. She need to know it and feel it.

    Ehhh hope this help a bit,
    eNergie
     
  4. Hamm

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    Damm, i thought i was cursed with bad luck cos' my girlfriend is 20 - 30 miles away from me! Dude, if she really has feelings for you and you ave feelings for her, she will wait for you, if she feels the same amount of love for you then she will wait for you, theres not much advise i can give cos' i suck at thiis kinda thing, all you can do is wait!
     
  5. matt1987

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    that's true. she'll most def. wait for me
     
  6. FrankC

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    u should send her thing through the mail or something like on holidays send her gifts or something that will make her love u or think about u evan more then she wont fall for any other dudes if u guys keep talking and and all that then when school finishes go see her and chances are u guys will be together. but u never know,good luck with that man and yea it is hard to let some one go if u have to
     
  7. fiercegoldeni

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    tell her that if she really loves you and doesnt want to lose you, she needs to move to germany. this will show if she loves you or not, and if she doesnt then she aint worth it even tho it might hurt u
     
  8. ghettolt

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    if it's mean to be you will definetly meet her again somewhere...
     
  9. eNergie2

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    You are not right, even if she would like to do it maybe she doesn't have the money to, she can't leave a day for fun even if its the thing she would just think about, she need to talk to everybody, fix stuff before she leaves. She need to find a job there and find a school to enter and I doubt fairly her parents will help her for that since they wont probably agree with her descision, and why shouldn't it be him that would do that? Imo, you should do or think about doing the thing I told you about, I may be young but Im sure they will work.
     
  10. Templar

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    You really should move on. I know she may seem like 'the one' but she probably isnt.

    A lot of things can change in a year and a half. I wouldnt be surprised if she left you, the odds are extremley against you she'll stay true to you. ---- happens, buddy, what can I say.
     
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    Send her a song in an E-Mail or something every now and then like a couple i used to save my but a couple of times,

    Madness - It Must Be Love, Lovestruck

    And genaraly lovey songs like that, say that it reminded you f her, and that you miss her and all the usual, and that you cried or something when you heard it on the radio, that will surely keep her hanging on, also try

    Thin Lizzy - Sarah

    Say you replaced the name Sarah with hers in it, it worked for me, and now i have a B E A Utiful girlfriend, and you sound like you really love her, just be careful, don't lose her!
     
  12. Legend_Tuzo

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    if you cant get a girlfriend , you must be pretty ugly , there are as many guys as girls..
     
  13. Hamm

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    Well thats a nice thing to say ain't it! They love each other, and the most soulcrushing thing happens, and you say that, get some feelings man! Poor guy, i hope they stay together and meet again someday!

    Maybe he dosnt want any other girl, he just wants her, i know how he feels, theres always just one you want s much over all the others, KEEP AT IT MAN YOU'L GET HER! :D
     
  14. -=DaRKSTaR=-

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    What are you saying - If you cant help then dont post - people are still saying just to leave her - I say 'WHY!!!' you guys posting things like this - First read the entire thread then decide - if your in love and then someone says forget her - You wouldn't be so happy would you now?
     
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    My oldest cousin was in the same situation as u but with a man in austrailia. Depending on how long you plan to stay in germany will determine your relationship for the future. Luckily for my cousin the guy had only 6months out in austrailia so he came back and lives in england to the day.
    So you have 2 options. You either go back to america when you finish your work. Or you accept that you cant ever meet again and keep living on life.However both choices have the conceqences. If your studies will take a long time then you may never know. she might have found another man. at the same time if u never go back u might never find out. Its always a tough situation and an answer wont come to you straight away but this may sounds really corny. but wot you need to do is take the time to sit back and think about it. Search your heart and soul and youll hopfully find an answer.

    good luck.
     

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