I can completely understand the long distance relationship thing. I live in the states and my partner lives in Australia. It will be a year before my partner is able to move here permantely. Its defienetly hard. There are some things that help though. We talk every day, communication is essential to surviving a long distance relationship. Whether it be on the phone, or through typing, or by talking through a mic. Web cams are a god send. While my partner cant be here with me, its great to just sit and watch them while they chat with you, or while they read a book or anything. Me and my partner tend to leave our web cams running for each other even if we arent talking at the moment. Care packages are awesome as well! Just last week I got a care package with my partners favorite hat, doused in their cologne. Its not the same as having them there, but having their "scent" and something of theirs near you really helps alot. Someone else mentioned renting the same movie. Thats an excellent idea as well. That way you can both watch the movie together and it helps you feel a bit closer. Theres alot of great ways to help deal with the pain of being apart. Use your creativity, think of things that would put a smile on your face, then do it for her. It will make her feel good, and you feel good. Follow your heart, stay true to it, keep the lines of communication open no matter how hard it may get and you can never go wrong. The rest is up to fate. Hope that helps.
If you got the tickets to go to America for 2 weeks and let your feelings go then go for it - If she has bought the tickets to go to Germany to see you then bascailly tha means she still :wub: you Simple - I hope you get through this & surely you will. After reading the post before thats what i ggiv you I think it was a song from someone 'Let your feelings go' o ye Eminem - Lose Yourself - Listen to that before you go to america-lol Really just keep in touch and visit her often and/or you can let her visit too Good Luck Man
Your right to an extent - but he's young, I doubt he's even 15 yet, he has his whole life ahead of him, and if she was the right one... He would be confident enough to know, and wouldn't have made this thread requesting for help. Sorry if I sound rood, but trust me, best way is to forget about hur.
I'm 18, as I mentioned somewhere above.. [/b][/quote] Yeah, I seen that, like right now ^_^; Um... To be honest, how strongly do you actually feel about hur? I mean like, if I felt really strongly about a gurl and we moved away... I wouldn't make a thread askin whut to do.. Coz I'd know I have to move back there and get hur. If you do actually feel REALLY strong about hur, I'm talking Moving to America, gettin a job and a home. But that will require a crap load of hard work and I don't recomend it. But, if you do like hur - do it... I know I would. Alternatively you could bring hur here... =|
Yea, unless you're positive you're in love and not just infatuated you should cut her. Or bang her then cut her. You'll just be wasting precious time if you're not 100% sure that the relationship will go somewhere.
that's the thing. I am most definitely sure that I love her! I made this thread to get suggestions what to do in the meantime. It's clear for myself that I'll move back when I'm done with the stuff i have to do here. That's for sure. I was asking for ways to make those almost 2 years a little shorter for both of us..
im sorry mate but 98% of the time long distance relations don't work they always want to see you and you being at the age you are you can't go to visit her only like on the holidays and when you have to say good bye it will kill you sorry im afraid your gonna have to break it off
Are you sure she feels the same way? What if shes having gangbangs each night? IT TAKES 2!! Anyways, I dunno if you should listen to me but I think you should get wasted and have some wild PROTECTED sex. Then next day go to the mall or something and try to meet a new chick.
Where did you get 98% from?? how do you know this - I dont understand he asking us to come up with things that can keep the relationship and you are just saying break it off people be more positive about this
read here it might help some we disscussed this awhile ago http://www.worldofgamers.net/talk/viewtopic.php?t=445
