Get over it. It's highschool love. Yu will find someone in Germany, and you will forget about that girl.
Yeah man. They really never work. Not bein able to hold each other and stuff like that is hard. I mean if you want to try it you can. But like some others said, it might be best to just let it go. You will eventually find soomeone else. Sry bro
Tell her to mail you some pictures of her and jerk to them every hour. Nah, find something to take up your spare time and take your mind off her, find a new group of people to hang out with. Depends what you like doing.. YOU CAN GET DRUNK AND PARTAY!!!
Altought, I know it will sound weird, but sex is a way to keep the "link" reinforced, so you could try to stay active sexually not by making sex, but cybersex... I KNOW ITS SOUND REALLY WEIRD but its keep the link reinforced and then the more you talk with her, the more it will last . The idea is to keep each other interested by the other person so they don't go see another person. The movie thing is a great idea, keep communicating, try living some weird situation together trust me those will help. I sincerly hope this will last forever for you bro, I really hope cause love is simply the greatest thing that can exist in this damn world. I hope I helped a bit, eNergie Ps : For those who says to forget her, its simply impossible. Haven't you ever woke up telling yourself you have nothing to do in the world? Well when the true love come then you know what you will ever want, be sure to make that person lives more happy than they will ever be.
Well, first thing to find out is if she still has feelings for you, if she does, you should try to talk to her, or least keep in contact. Just one problem, it's not perfect, cause no matter what happens, staying away from each other will eventually make your two drift apart (I know how ya feel man, I was in the same boat with my second GF) but hey, you should enjoy it while it lasts
Hahaha, the idea of cybering sounds funny... Yea it might work, but jerking it to the screen and mental pictures aint all that.. Unless you have a porno going on in the background of the chat log
Stay in touch with her. Stay in school (focus). Finish School! Get a good job! ask her to marry you. and live happily lolz
I mean, not only porno, I would prefer x15000 times to have a huge hug from my gf to have a porno scene with her. For me sex is mostly everything around the penetration. Take a look like this, we say that in a dinner, the whole thing should be around 30% of meats and the rest should be vegetables. In this case, around 30% would be the "pornographic" look and the 70% would be all the things that makes it really fun. Edit : after rereading my post I sound a bit gay lol... but if you think of it...
yeah i thought have ing a cross town gf in a diff high school was bad...i left her for college though... its up to u i would try to maintain but still check to see if its working or not...b4 u give up
Try saving up some money to make a tour there for about a weekend and the more often your able, I know its alot but if you can do that, it will truly work for you 2. If you need any help at all, need to talk, need to take out some stress, anything, feel free to pm me I will give you out my msn/aim
To tell you my honest opinion. Girls kinda suck. They always seem to hurt you. Not saying we are any better. We seem to hurt them too. Relationships just always seem to turn out bad. You always get those ones that are good though. Just a couple of those in your lifetime.
In a certain point your right, but you won't say that when you will find her :wub: no but seriously, it is really something you can't miss. It's like the heaven lol
Leave hur be. Seriously man. Its the only way man. I know it may sound absurd, but she will eventually find another guy she likes. And you'll find another gurl. I know it may sounbd harsh, but long distance relationships almost never work, especially at your age. And you can't really move to America.... It'd be almost impossible to start a new life they;re without a lot of back up money... I know you may luv hur, but its one of the sacrafices you have to make in life. I normally don't help people on this - as I tend to think they're attention seekers, but yours sounds real, and I kinda... Had the same incident a while back. Its eazier to let go of hur man, than become depressed for years. [/b][/quote] well.. i dunno, I guess I never mentioned my age (18 btw) but i'm getting what you're saying. To the other people, I CAN'T leave her, it'd be too hard for me, seriously, I couldn't. I just booked a flight during the Christmas time for two weeks, alright it's not forever but at least I'm seeing her again. She bought some tickets to come over here next summer and I think everything is gonna work out, now that I've got the tickets in my hands, y'know? Someone asked how long I'm gonna be in Germany for, that's a little less than two years from now, like 1 and 3/4, then I'm movin back to America. I can't wait.. Moose said I should find out if she's got feelings for me.. well, I already know that she does. She told me and she's been my girlfriend for quite some time know.. Thanks you all for your help PS: No, this is really no attention seeking or boosting post count or whatever.. As I said, personally I'd never discuss something like that with people I barely know, but I'm so desperate to find a solution...
Wow, i thought i had it bad with a 2 hour traveltime. But my experiecne is that Long distance Relations dont last long. I know how bad it is m8, but maybe you should face it.
