Alright, here's the story: I've been living in America for a year, to go to school and stuff, have some fun. And I actually did have quite some fun, probably too much. I fell in love with the sweetest girl in the world, it's been totally great between us. I am so extremely happy to have her in my life. Then - the bad part about the story - I had to move back to Germany and finish my school here. That means that my girlfriend, and it's not like just for fun, i really love her i thought bout marrying her, still lives overseas. Do you guys have any suggestions for me? Because I'm really depressed all the time, I can't even touch her these days, it makes me sad and I don't know what to do. Does anyone of you live in a serious long distance relationship and can gimme some suggestions? I really need them, because I don't wanna loose her, that'd be the end of my happy world. Thank you, I appreciate it. Ps: 1) I know it's really weird to ask stuff like that online, but I am desperate, I don't know what to do 2) Please answer seriously, I wanna get over this as good as I can..
Wow. That sounds tough m8. Phone calls, email, google talk would probably be a great way to talk. Both of you get a webcam or something and use google talk. Worst problem I have is differnt high schools. I thought that was hard. Put some thought behind how to talk and stay in touch with each other without being together. You could even both rent the same movie and watch it together or something. ^_^ Just me jambling. Hope I gave you an idea or something.
The only thing i can tell you man is to keep comunicating...u have to keep in touch...if that means every day than do it everyday. I don't have any advice in long distance relationships but i do know how it feels to be in love with someone as much as u are in love with ur mate. Good luck.
well, i def. know how it feels to be seperated like this. It's relly hard, but I'm trying my best to keep communicating and so on. Thanks for that suggestion with the movie, well, at least it's a thought that I could keep thinking about .. don't you think?
Yes, this happened between me and a cookie once. Eh yeah, back on topic, I honestly dont know what to tell you, this has never hapened to me... Good luck bro.
oh man, thats crap, well i suggest u both buy wbecams and use them, also try to come to america every summer, but, ah man, that really sucks...
Well keep in touch with phone calls, maybe som letters. Good luck with it. And how long u staying in Germany?
Just make sure you dont loose contact man, it sounds like you got a real gal here and im sure by the looks of things you def. dont wanna loose her. Keep it going, spice things up on the phone or whenever you can talk to her and just try no to get yourself down, it will only make you feel worse. Just keep it real and you will be back in her arms in no time.
communicate with email phone etc etc and then when ur done school for summer break get some money and go back to america to visit her...repeat each year trust me it WILL work
This may seem harsh, but if it's that depressing to you to keep her as a GF and hold on to her through long distance, then I think it would be better for you if you just start seeing other people. I don't know the details and when you're returning to be with her, but sometimes you have to make tough decisions in life, and if I were you, this would be one of them.
I kinda agree with him. I doubt she'll wait, girls have needs. Anyways, yea......."plenty of cookies in the jar" <--- my motto!! SCREW, FISH IN THE SEA!!
Ya try to stay in touch with her..but i think i would just try and become the best of friends and talk on the phone and email and sh!t...giving her up is the toughest thing to do but it may also be the right thing to do you know...just keep in touch talk on the phone...Im sry man ive never had this problem...hope u feel much better after all these suggestions..btw if we post that u should "end" it..dont get pissed cuz we are trying to help u and give u hope
Leave hur be. Seriously man. Its the only way man. I know it may sound absurd, but she will eventually find another guy she likes. And you'll find another gurl. I know it may sounbd harsh, but long distance relationships almost never work, especially at your age. And you can't really move to America.... It'd be almost impossible to start a new life they;re without a lot of back up money... I know you may luv hur, but its one of the sacrafices you have to make in life. I normally don't help people on this - as I tend to think they're attention seekers, but yours sounds real, and I kinda... Had the same incident a while back. Its eazier to let go of hur man, than become depressed for years.
---- her. Shes not worth it. She's probably already forgotten you and started ----ing some other guy. Trust me, this is how it almost always happens. Sorry you feel this way, but honestly, if you dont move on you're going to turn into an emotional train wreck, one of those ----ty-ass emo kids that can go to hell. Get her off your mind and move on. Thats the best advice you'll probably get.
I know you really don't want to lose her but if it doesn't end up working out then don't let it get you down... i've felt like i've loved maybe 3 girls but i always end up finding another like that
