God damn your a dumbass. He does know what it feels like. You need to accept it and move on. It hurts for the first couple of weeks but you cant mourn forever. I sure as hell know when I die I dont want my loved ones to mourn me forever. I want them to remember me, not cry over me time and time again. Irrel has a very good point..its hard the first couple weeks, but you must move on to be stronger. Sorry for your loss
God damn your a dumbass. He does know what it feels like. You need to accept it and move on. It hurts for the first couple of weeks but you cant mourn forever. I sure as hell know when I die I dont want my loved ones to mourn me forever. I want them to remember me, not cry over me time and time again. Irrel has a very good point..its hard the first couple weeks, but you must move on to be stronger. Sorry for your loss [/b][/quote] I love when people call me a dumbass when they can't even use the word "your" correctly. Apparently he doesn't know how most people feel when they lose a loved one because you don't just go "oh well, they died, time to move on." There is a grieving period. That's all my point is, but obviously, I'm too much of a "dumbass" to know what I'm talking about.
wow u guys stfu stop flame waring is thread about a friend who ended his life @ flamey sry man i had a close friend jump off the 3rd story of a mall so i know what your going through just keep your head up as for your parents.. im pretty sure they were just pissed about something feel better -Zak
I love when people call me a dumbass when they can't even use the word "your" correctly. Apparently he doesn't know how most people feel when they lose a loved one because you don't just go "oh well, they died, time to move on." There is a grieving period. That's all my point is, but obviously, I'm too much of a "dumbass" to know what I'm talking about. [/b][/quote] Your still a dumbass for saying Irrel has no clue what hes talking about. Read my post again, read 4th sentence. If you have a hard time reading, ill read it to you. "It hurts for the first couple of weeks but you cant mourn forever" I never said dont mourn, I have lost 2 grandparents this summer. It was hard, but I grieved for a few weeks then began to move on. I knew they would've wanted that and I began to realize that I can't mourn them forever and that I have to go on. Do you understand now or must I go on in simpler terms? Its the internet, if I dont use "your" or "you're" right who cares? Your gonna try and judge me on something like that? I dont care about grammar when Im talking on an internet forum. Good insult there, should've tried longer to come up with a better one.
Your still a dumbass for saying Irrel has no clue what hes talking about. Read my post again, read 4th sentence. If you cant read too well, ill read it to you. "It hurts for the first couple of weeks but you cant mourn forever" I never said dont mourn, I have lost 2 grandparents this summer. It was hard, but I grieved for a few weeks then began to move on. I knew they would've wanted that and I began to realize that I can't mourn them forever and that I have to go on. Do you understand now or must I go on in simpler terms? Its the internet, if I dont use "your" or "you're" right who cares? Your gonna try and judge me on something like that? I dont care about grammar when Im talking on an internet forum. Good insult there, should've tried longer to come up with a better one. [/b][/quote] stop the flame wa
Well, I must say that Im seriously sorry for you. But after a while you'll just remember good time with him and that will help you, time erase bad things you know? I hope you'll be good soon, and ready to have fun. For now, think of what could make it easier to take and let the time do it effect. ^_^
im sorry hun *hugs* sorry im not good with words in these kind of situations but im real sorry for ur loss
how dare you. do NOT give me that ----. YOU probably have no experience losing a loved one. what do you want me to say? "ok, man, i feel bad for you;but please continue grieving, please ruin your entire life because of the ache in your heart that doesn't cease. your world is falling apart, but its OK. go smoke some weed and drink, it'll take the pain away." no you ----er. im not going to say that, you impolite, insensitive, illogical ---- head. This is no light matter, you are correct, but you obviously dont know how to deal with it. use your head to think, not ur ass. i said it takes time, and it does hurt- i know now tell me, whats for the best? You rather have him depressed? do you know what that leads to? sorry, but i wouldn't like him to be that way for the rest of his life. and it doesn't just hurt for a couple of weeks- if you choose not to accept it. it'll stay with you forever. Usually it'll grow on you, but if you choose to cling on- it'll do just that.
What about all of you s*** ** and stop arguing on a topic that someone made to get some better feeling. If both of you could stop spamming in here and start talking over pm, Im sure most of us will apprecaite. kthxbai
Alright, at this point, I'm just gonna say it. Shut the F.U.C.K. up. Let the guy let out some stress for a lost friend. Buncha assholes.
Somebody died and you guys are fighting a worthless battle which will end in a simple closed topic...... Flamey sorry to hear that hope you get better if you need anything from me feel free to p.m me... good luck with everything
he shouldnt grieve over death come on now hes a fire fighter he sees death every once ina while death isnt something that u can just blwo over. it takes time to get over. with more death comes less pain.
Yeah, but even if he sees death every once in a whle its not always easy with the death of a loved/cared one...............
