I Just Found Out

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  1. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:04 AM #1
    sig_nut

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    i just found out my next door neighbour (likes me)

    we've bee friends for a ages and i've never looked at her in that way...

    what should i do?
     
  2. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:07 AM #2
    Final

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    QUICK TUTORIAL:



    first of all: do you like her?

    first solve that question for yourself



    If yes: Go for it, if you know eachother for a long time, that's just perfect

    If no: I'm sure she'll understand your reasons for it ;)


    that's the end of this tutorial
     
  3. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:07 AM #3
    Greasy Pete

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    you get closer.... and closer... until you are at the point of where you find yourself crawling through her bedroom window just to hover over her own bed. And then, breathe, breathe heavely on her while staring at her in her room, at the heart of night. :blink:
     
  4. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:09 AM #4
    Andrew

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    Best friends for life? Sounds like a quick way to get some, how old are you again?

    Joking...if you like her, go for it, if you don't...she'll understand

    BFTP
     
  5. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:09 AM #5
    Phat Albert

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    1. Do you like her?
    2. Dont just go and ask her out.
    3. Do lots of stuff together.
    4. Hang out with her alot.
    5. She should be you girlfriend in no time.

    How did you find out she liked you?
     
  6. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:24 AM #6
    sig_nut

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    Thats the thing.. im not sure if i like Alina. I mean, she's like a sister to me.

    BTW im 18

    im going nuts, i cant even tell my closest buddy (jason) coz its her brother.

    im in a tight dillema... the sad part is that the girl that told me is my ex-gf who is best friends with Alina

    =(
     
  7. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:26 AM #7
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    Well, first find out if you like her or not. It's difficult to find out if you are allready such close friends. Only advise can be: take enough time to think it over ;)
     
  8. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:26 AM #8
    Phat Albert

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    Just follow your heart, and you can never go wrong. If you ever hesitate to make a decision, try to ask someone for advice.
     
  9. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:29 AM #9
    sig_nut

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    i feel like i have just lost my friends all at once..

    i dont even have anything to drink with =(

    my other buddies live way too far
     
  10. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:30 AM #10
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    ummm.....u took my idea but ^^^ wat he said^^^
     
  11. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:32 AM #11
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    3 simple words... I am gay.
     
  12. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:32 AM #12
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    Follow your Heart. Thats the only way.

    If she feels for you then i think you should think about it and maybe see it in her light.
     
  13. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:33 AM #13
    Xalibur

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    That must really truly suck.
    Well, if she likes you, theres only 2 ways to go, and they have both been said already ;)
     
  14. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:33 AM #14
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    Very much agreed. :)
     
  15. Jul 19, 2005 at 9:42 AM #15
    sig_nut

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    easy for you guys to say... how many of you have ever been in a situation where you MUST choose between losing your friends or breaking someone's heart.

    this sux
     
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