By deffered, do you mean suspended or told you weren't allowed in? If 2, you have no reason to be mad, you should just be regretting how thick you are.
Don't go to college, it sucks royally. All the assholes I know in high school wont stop bitching about college apps. In about 6 months or so you can be a commercial pilot and fly planes for a living like me. It kicks ass. Makes for great pick-up lines. Plus, the travel and all that bull----...
My Uncle chose to be a pilot (not commercial... for the army. Canadian army! =D) instead of going in the NHL (wasn't the lifestyle he wanted). He had so many experiences, and he loved it, so I'm not going to argue with your logic (he died recently of cancer.) HOWEVER, you really need to actually like that lifestyle. For some it becomes like driving a bus, or just a car. Boring. Plus you have to want to do it, too. And college is good for many people, too, so don't bash it =D