Xen you make me want to lol...haha Anyhow there is a very simple and easy solution. I would like YOU (Zach or whatever) to leave this girl (GENNY) alone for the remainder of this year and next. If she is meant to be for you she will come back, if not then there are plenty of fish out there in the sea my friend you can always catch a new one when one gets away. It is not that hard. If you need help catching them then ask around GR we got people who will help you out. But honestly, this is High School Drama. It happens to everyone, at least once in their life. I'm still struggling with it for the past two years and I'm in college, so let her go and see if she comes back. If she comes back then she is yours if not then get some worms and a fishing hook or a harpoon and go out to a lake and start fishing again. Believe me no one can help you here... after what has already been said. Zain.
Well, you don't necessarily have to catch a whale with a harpoon ... You know you can catch multiple fishes at the same time with a harpoon It worked for me four months ago :lol: The hard part is that you can only keep one though Zain.
Well as far as my experience goes, I caught three but got in trouble with one I really liked. So decided to keep her only. I've never been the charming guy who gets to walk around with one on each side *sigh* Zain.
This chick is bad news. If she is that indecisive, do not waste your time. She is the type of person that will "love" you until she wakes up one morning and starts thinking the guy in her third period is pretty cute and he makes me laugh and maybe I should go out with him. Which will probably happen within a month if this is what she has shown you. I was in something of a similar situation in high school, actually a couple. I made the mistake of getting involved in two of my friend's relationships (both were girls). For some reason, they came to me for advice. Both *wanted* to stay with (Chris or Joey), but knew they had to end it. One girl went back to her guy three times, even after he cheated on her; she would tell me one day that she would end it, and two days after that be back with him, to repeat the process again in a few more days. The other didn't have the stomach to end what could be described as an abusive relationship. My mistake was to keep trying, even after it was clear that neither was smart enough to get out of something that was hurting them. My advice to you is not to get involved with this, or for the matter any high school drama. About the only things you'll gain out of it are lost sleep and bad memories. If you are for whatever reason "in love," crazy over this girl, and are willing to give it a chance: good luck; you're going to need it. Be sure to stock up on your chosen method of stress relief in advance. As Broken said, "love" at fifteen (or sixteen or seventeen or even eighteen...) is pretty unreachable, never mind unrealistic. Lots of people are "in love" during high school. And the vast majority of them break up within a year. Of those that are lucky enough to make it past that threshold, many more will end it before they graduate. And to that one couple that met Sophomore year and got married, we all hate you and hope you get divorced. Chuck Palahniuk said, "ten times out of ten, 'I love you' means 'I love this,'" "this" being sex, time spent together, your significant other buying your sh*t, or furious dry humping if you're abstinent. I won't criticize you if you seriously believe you're in love at such a young age. There are a rare few that are; I am a cynic and like to think that most people aren't. Most couples I saw were not. One memorable snippet of conversation from the hallway: "I'm not asking you this (to have sex) because I want to. I'm asking you because I love you." Very telling. I do challenge you to ------uate why. Physical stuff isn't it, and fooling into thinking that stuff doesn't matter (and, more importantly, doesn't play a huge role in your ------uation) is stupid.
"I love you;" A term used by adolescents to encourage another to engage in coitus (usually uttered by males).
One one hand, I'd honestly tell you to go out and have fun through your high school years. Have sex if you want, with one girl or as many as you can get. Go on a few dates if you want; just be sure to keep them fun. Get out and do sh*t. It's the best thing you can do. Above all, get some close friends, both guys and girls. They are far more important than any relationship you will have right now. I would not advise you to tie yourself down in those years; you will mature into that stage later on. For now, just have fun with it. You don't "need" a long term girlfriend. If you find one and believe you are ready to commit to it, fine. Just realize that this is high school; you will probably not be with that person for the rest of your life, despite what you say two weeks in.
This made me laugh quite a bit, cause I totally know a couple of people like that. But I pretty much agree with everything you said, although we probably would disagree that sometimes people really do love their high school boyfriend/girlfriend.
This sounds a lot like me... Not to be off-topic but I might been one of those people who gets married to the girl I met my Sophomore year... DON'T HATE ME. /emo
That's until one of you sleeps with someone else because you are both inexperienced. The primary reason for divorce is because individuals got married too fast or too young (essentially the same thing) and divorce rates keep climbing... and climbing... and climbing. Wanna know what I hate? Women just seem to cling on and attach to you whenever you are with someone already and the temptation is almost always there more often, however as soon as you're single its like the aura you had that is gone.
I know what you mean, and there's always a chance it might happen, but that's not going to stop me. I'm planning on dating her for a few years at the least, considering the fact that we still have so much change to go through. As for the clinging affair, I definitely agree, and I see it as a form of jealously at times as well. Luckily I don't have that problem, but I know people that do.
Whats funny she told someone that I hit her and well He and 2 other boys come to jump my ass. And well long story short we didn't end up fighting because he said, "Hell no your a boxer you will kick our asses" next day he brings 7 boys. so its 8 vs 1. Even though I know my friends will back me up I told them to stay out of it. Before we got to fight we were pulled in the office and well we pulled Genny in and she said that this was the first week of school and it was a game. So technically she lied.
