Breaking Up

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    AnythingPink Well-Known Member

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    What is a good way to break up with someone?

    I ask because I want to break up with my bf and I have no experience with how to do break ups, usually I just disappear out of the person's life leaving no messages and just stop talking to them. But I don't want to do that this time, I'd rather just tell it to their face.
     
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    Arrange to meet them at a place which is not either of your houses (and preferably not too far away from where they live because it's not very nice forcing them to make a long trip just to get dumped), mention you have something to talk about and then discuss not being together.

    Or just tell him on msn or something, if you're a bitch.
     
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    Just say you don't think things are working out between you 2, be truthful and understanding.
    Obviously do it face to face not via text.

    "I need to talk to you about something, it's about us, it just feels like something isn't right, when I'm with you ....." Go into what you feel is wrong with the relationship.

    Let him talk and explain.
     
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    Would be hard to do it in-person.. He recently just became homeless from his roommate kicking him out. So chances of me seeing him any time soon are unlikely. My only option is to call him and do it that way..


    I just don't want breaking up with him to be the cause of him committing suicide, considering I'm all he has but ugh I just can't be with someone who is clingy. I mean I can be clingy a little myself but he is way too clingy.. -_-
     
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    Wait until one day sshes sick and in bed, then tape her favorite tv show from that day, and bring it to her with a batch of some kind of food. However, after the show is recorded, make sure you record her best friend blowing you, and then spitting your load into the batch of w/e type of food you made, then hold the camera up and say... I don't think this is working out. Works for me.

    Wait, your female, you can't do those things...
     
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    You are dumping a homeless person who's only thing of value is you.. (and a phone obviously).

    You mean bitch.
     
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    Break up with him and tell him he never meant a thing to you. Let me know if he does kill himself, I'll send him candies..
     
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    don't be cold and do it over the phone, msn, email or txt do it in person. Tho you should not stay with him over pity of not wanting him to do something stupid..
     
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    Shake it
    Tell him you feel somethings wrong, and want to try out a few weeks without a relationship..
    That way he still thinks he has a chance, and after a few weeks his life may be on track again.

    THEN DUMP HIM!
     
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    oooh that could work..

    Gosh I'm such a bitch to guys! But I can't help it :rolleyes:
     
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    thats easier for who ever dumps, not easy for who is getting dumped.. is cold and is not right thats like giving him hopes and than cutting him loose id rather get dumped right away give a solid reasosn on to why thye don't wanna be with me just be honest tell him what bothers you and that u want to be alone or somethign you don't want to be in a relationship right now that u rather be friends if he is ok with that or w.e but don't give hopes he will just end up hating you later on
     
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    I thought she was a he.
     
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    I am a he :mellow:
     
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    Ah, well then mine works fine, just replace all the shes w/ hes. I figured since you were dumping your 'bf' that you were female.
     

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