Thank you to everyone, I made a few attempts are sigs, tell me what you think... this should probably be in a different room but w/e... this is already here:
guripop, nice and simple, i like the top one is the best imo, i like te colours better hehe. peavey, google is your friend
There are loads of ways to make a tag look good, however I find creativity and originality the best way. Try new things you haven't seen before, and post them here for some comments. If people likes the effect, that good care of it, and don't tell too many how to make it. That would make it being whored and the originality is gone. (However, it will get whored, eventually). A nice and very original way is learning to digipaint, or getting good with Illustrator to use them in tags. You would preferably need a tablet, but there is no need for that just yet. Check out design for a while, and if you really like it, stick to it.