dude. move on. youre a guy. just shake it off. find a girl who's more physically attractive and just start flirting. it works for me. your johnson will take control of your heart. but i get the feeling that you don't quite understand where you guys are. you're the good friend. you're a way for her to vent about her crappy boyfriend. you're a way to see how guys will react to a new outfit. she called you "baby" because she thought that you guys were at the point were she could get close without it getting too close. she doesn't want you to hate her because she doesnt want to lose a good friend. and i say "take that." that's a great relationship. this girl who liked me a while ago is now like my best friend. its cool because we know that there could never be anything there. its just an unconditional friendship. i think thats what you have with this girl and i think you should be happy with that. but if youre really determined, find a new girl to "like" and ask your friend what she thinks. see how she reacts. if its kinda like "shes ok" make your move. right then, right there. if she gives you advice about how to get said girl, its iffy. if shes all encouraging and like "go for it!" etc etc, shes pushing you away because she thinks you two are too close. thats my take on the situation. im pretty good with girls so i think im relatively trustworthy. oh. and above all: dont be a sniveling bitch about it either. if it is "meant to be" it will happen naturally.
JordanGen to be honest man, like 100%, if you really don't like her anymore sit next to her and ask her to have sex with you. It's guaranteed that she will become freaked out and never talk to you again. If she says yes though...then you're on your own buddy. Or you could just tell her you're gay...but that'd have bad repercussions. About the sex thing though, try it out for real, it will get rid of her so quick.
"but i get the feeling that you don't quite understand where you guys are. you're the good friend. you're a way for her to vent about her crappy boyfriend. you're a way to see how guys will react to a new outfit. she called you "baby" because she thought that you guys were at the point were she could get close without it getting too close. she doesn't want you to hate her because she doesnt want to lose a good friend. and i say "take that." that's a great relationship. this girl who liked me a while ago is now like my best friend. its cool because we know that there could never be anything there. its just an unconditional friendship. i think thats what you have with this girl and i think you should be happy with that." that makes sense... but no i can't. i stopped talking to her for a reason (in my first post...and that was the last thing i would do).....i couldnt take being just friends with her (uh no....i cant think about going back to the friends zone) and apparenlty if its the way you say it is, she didnt get the message, i was very straight forward about it too..uhhh i guess ill have to try what you suggested when the opportunity comes up i will until then i guess i'll stop being that guy and if anything up the flirting anytime im around her or dont talk to her at all
so why did you talk to me? her: well idk... me: youi just cant resist me can you her: (laugh) well its been 7 months since we talked... me: wow she was counting (to my friend so she hears it) her: speechless in denial OWNED!
Well, you can take that as a good sign but still..Keep away from her, or barely say anything when she starts talking,lol.
I don't think acting all faggish and saying "oh yeah couldn't resist this could you" "wow she's been counting" is going to help the situation. Acting like you're all that and stuff. That just makes you seem like a jerk...
my problem is i like a girl whos having a baby..i was originally suppose to be the godfather... cause im like her brother(not really she jsut calls me that cause i care so much) and we ende dup falling for each other cause her bf whos the babies father is a jackass whos abusive... and now i unno what i should do should i be with her... like i kinda want to and i know id be a good father
Be outside her window, with your radio.... (lul). Just don't be nervous, you got balls (I assume) so use em.
