Hey guys, I could use some advise from you Sit back, and read the story Okay, since like a year i have a girlfriend and we get along great, some times she hangs around me to much but thats okay..... okay, for the last two week i was in a vacationpark on a student exchange program. That programm was really fun...but....there was an English girl i like very much from day 1..... We got along very good, and had much fun....well for the first few days it was just fun,...after that stuff got a lill more intense...at first i could stop myself because i hate cheating....but the in the days later we kissed and hang around each other very much....i could stop myself for sleeping with her....but i really wanted to do that... and she aswell.. Now the two weeks are over....the girl is back to england....and i am home again with my GF..... The first thing that came in my head this morning is to take a trip to london to see the girl... Now i ask you what the ....... i should do.... Is this just temporary and should i stay with my gf? Should i tell my gf? Should i keep it a secret? I feel like going insane right now.... Bratzer
i say stay in touch w/ the girl from england and try to get together again... if you go back up and you still feel that way then maybe you should stay w/ the english girl, you never know if it might just be temporary w/ the english girl. So stay w/ ur gf and then wen you go back up to england and you still like her then maybe you should get rid of your gf.
I would say follow your heart, there's no use of staying with your GF if you dont really love her anymore because your just cheating on yourself. If you feel so close to the English girl I would tell your GF your feelings as soon as possible because if you hide it any longer you may be worse off. I know its extreamly hard and its easier said than done but I'm sure she'll understand and in a way be glad that you have been honest with her. Only do this though if yu really do feel for the other girl because if something happens between you two, you may regret breaking up with your GF.
OMFG how do guys get to kiss girls they dont even know? It would make my month happy if a girl gave me a hug. Jesus f'ing christ how do you do it? If your serious about your girlfriend, tell her. If not dont. And about go visitiing the other girl, I have no clue where you live, and if you live near there, like less than a half hour, then I would go.
I'd say stick with your girl you have now, i mean you met a nice chick...so what? You two got it off in two weeks, what do you think will happen in London lol? She'll be hookin up with guys you don't know and you'll get there and be bummed.
I live in the Netherlands, so that a lill more then half a hour Thanks for the advise so far. The problem i have now is that i dont know if 'these feelings' are just temporary or not....wish i knew....
ide tell her the truth. i dont know why but i just would. if you like the english girl and she only lives a half hour away go for the girl you like the best. (and wich 1 u think truly loves you)
Come clean to your girlfriend, usually they understand and end end up NOT finding the hard way and NOT hating your guts forever. If you really want to stay with g/f, you can't call her...that will just be relation suicide.
Always be honest with the person you are with. Tell her you met a girl abut nothing serious happened. As for the other woman, long distance relationships are hard. You will end up spending alot of time apart and one of you will find someone else close to home. You have only known this other woman for 2 weeks. It takes a while to really get to know someone, as in 1 year with your current girlfriend. My advice is to do what your heart tells you and always be honest. If you would rather be with the English girl do that but be truthful to your GF. How would you feel if she did the same thing to you and you found out about it from someone other than her?
Yeah, ill come clean with my GF for sure now....she was here just a few secs ago with her mum to drop something off. I could even look her in the eyes straight.... I dont know who i want to be with right now. As savage said i know the english girl for two weeks...thats all... Its all very strange to me....There is only onething i know for sure right now....I need a big bottle of Wodka right now..
Alright, listen. Dont come clean with your girlfriend. The feelings are just temporary. I have met a few girls like that before. They are temporary. Just spend some extra time with your gf and you will see that you are perfectly happy with her. You can keep in touch with the girl from london. But I wouldnt get serious. After its not like shes around the corner or down the street. So my advise to you is to put her in the past, because if you dont, you will regret giving up your current girlfriend for her. Trust me, I have done it before.
Id stick wiv the girls u have now...u must like her a lot still, just think of the english girl as a 'fling' that can be forgotten...and oh yeh...dont tell ur current gf! what she doesnt kno cant hurt her
