Well, this happened a few weeks ago, and I've just been thinking about it alot today. I met a girl a month or so ago, and I had been hanging out with her for for that month. She didn't know that I liked her, so I aws just waiting for the right time. So, one day her, a few friends, and I go to a local restaurant to hang out and drink coffee. The one kid lights up a cigarette, and finishes it. The girl I like asks for one, and then continues to take down half a pack in 30 minutes. I try one, my first time, and don't like it at all. So anyways, I was worrying about the girl I liked, and that she is pretty much killing herself by smoking. A few days later, I noticed that her friends were always critiscising her for smoking all the time, like grinding her hidden smokes into the ground and such. I take a chance when the girl I like is out to lunch with her Grandma, I decide to go and talk to her friends. I tell them taht I am worried about her, and that I like her alot. They talked about some ideas that they were thinking of using to try and get her to quit, and I agree to help them. Later that day I get a call from her smoking buddy in my 6th hour, bitching about the whole ordeal. One of the girl I likes' friends leaked the info to her, and she is pissed. I settle the feud with her smoking buddy, but the girl I like hates me now. Her friends threatened to tell her dad what she has been doing, and she blames me. She claims that I ruined her whole Freshman year. I have tried to talk to her, but she ignores me now. Here is the question: Do you think that I did the right thing by seeking to aid her? This is the first time I really felt something for someone, and I gave up trying to get with her.
i hope it ruins her stupid freshman year. 1 year of being grounded is better than 50 years cut off your life
im stuck in a situation just as you are, except i like this girl but my ex is freaking crazy, what i would do is be open minded about the whole thing, if she chooses cigarettes over you or some of her friends then she isnt going to be worth it, unless you smoked too which you dont and good for you, its hard yes i know but your going to have to think it threw and be very wise
Smoking is a personal choice. I smoke and i personally hate people telling me off about it. What u think we smokers think is good for us or something? Point is, there are limits to how much u should ask of a person. Doing that to her when shes just your friend is a bit much and i think u handled it wrong. If u were going out, and we together for a few months at least, then maybe u would be right in asking her to quit. But not when u have nothing with her. Welcome to the real world bud. Ur opinion is your own, and sometimes its best kept that way.
IMO...Pee on her... Shes not worth the time bro...besides who wants to kiss a chick whos mouth tastes like an ashtray?
No one like a complainer. Half of my friends smoke and I don't say anything. None of my buisness anyway.
Shes not old enough to be buying them, therefore its illegal for her to be smoking them. As far as I am concerned, her dad finding out is the least of her worries, and your not at fault at all. Puppy dog love happens, it passes, thousands of other fish in the sea.
Whether she is allowed to buy them or not it is still her choice. Age has nothing to do with maturity. Its her choice, let her deal with it.
Its good to make people realize smoking is bad. But do not force some one if they still want to smoke. its their choice.
its okay dude theres plenty more fish in the sea i just recently broke up with the girl that i thought i would only like and a thought i was a right a------ but shes started tryin to fight with me now for no reason and i realise that she isnt as theres plenty of girls i talk to now what i would have done was get her to like u first like go out with her and then started tryin to stop making her smoke she probably feels that if you only know her a little bit that you might be invading her space i would just say take it slow apologize say it was none of your business that you smoke and try and build the relationship back up again hope everything works out
