So, let me get this straight. You find her absolutely gorgeous and would do anything to get in her pants. Then, once you've moved past the friends barrier, you suddenly feel a bit out of place? Have you ever thought that you might be *gasp* HOMOSEXUAL?
For the record, any mother that gets on the internet to ask how to control her kid doesn't need to have that child. Ask your friends; they know the situation better, and most people on here don't have the slightest clue about girls other than the ones they jerk off to. P.S.: "talked," not "conversed." Where the f*ck are you from, Star Trek? [/b][/quote] It was merely an innocent example, a bit exaggerated, but still meant to prove a point. And yes, you could say I'm from Star Trek, I'll take that as an ...erm...compliment ? Anyway, the situation has gotten a bit odd. Every time we ride the bus on friday, she wants me to sit next to her. We've talked a whole lot more, and I've gotten to know her a little bit better. But,strangely, it's gotten to the point where I don't know if I have interest anymore. I sort of have interest, but am not very impressed now that I've conversed (yes, CONVERSED) with her (I love my stupid diction ... /sarcasm) . It could be more of the whole friend-type deal, but I'm beginning to think she likes me (not trying to sound conceited...) . Interesting dilemma ... [/b][/quote] Please, stop trying. Either go get laid, don't go get laid and stay where you're at, or make a fool out of yourself.
Well updating on my story: So we chillin couple nights ago and she says "thanks baby" to me..... Next night we chillin and she gets on the phone and is talking about her boyfriend w/ somebody. W. T. F. maybe she thought i was her bf for a second? lmao bitch idk thoughts?
dude seriously how old are you? baby doesnt mean much of anything. now i dont know why you are on an art forum asking for girl advice. we arent in your situation and we have no idea how this is all working. but if you want my advice, you are close enough with her to know if she even has a boyfriend ask her... if yes, keep going she will lose him for you if not, same thing.
As said above. "Baby" doesn't mean...anything. Screw all the nervous crap, the best way to get a girlfriend is to hit them over the head with a locker. Yes'um.
Does that also go when a girl hits you in the head with a locker, because that has happened to me multiple times and all i have gotten is a few concussions.
My thoughts are that you have to make a move, I mean you're chillin with her alone and you don't do anything? Second of all, what does she have to think about you, she's alone with you and you don't make a move, she must be thinking that you don't find her attractive and just want to be a friend or something. Solution: Stop wearing tight underwear as they seem to block your testosterone, buy some boxers and let that testosterone flow through your body.
Wasn't aware this topic would be revived, lol. Anyway, yes, she claims she has no friends (since she's new to the school), but now it's becoming annoying. I don't have interest in her anymore, but she's still wanting me to sit next to her and to walk with her home, but I dunno how to tell her that Idc anymore lol... as superficial as that seems... and it's not like I even really want to be her friend, it's come to that... I just want her to sort of leave me be, I'm becoming tired just imagining her even as a friend saying hi to me.
dude thats why you date at different schools. they get annoying you just stop talking, they get the hint real fast. just when she talks to you like turn away and ignore her more. she will take a hint. but seriously if shes hot. just stfu
Yep +1 The best person you can be is yourself, being someone else (idolizing) wont get you anywhere, I've finished school, it was the best years of my life and i loved it, even though i hated school at times But, out of all honesty, if your nervous of talking to her, just practice talking to your girlfriends, and then work up the confidence to talk to her Good luck dude
update So the friendship just keeps going the same....chilling at work...following me...etc. She breaks up AGAIN, and once again a month or two later ANOTHER boyfriend. (i know i can't help myself!) Now same thing goes and she breaks up about a month later. During all of this note she is still following me. She flirts a lot is always commenting on how i dress and smell, crazy women!!. This is when I realized what i was doing was wrong. I start busting on her and negging her a lot. calling her names and all the good stuff. after a couple of weeks of that still nothing.....anyway this is when i tell her its over. either i can never talk to you again, or we can move up in the friendship scale. she goes 'blah' 'blah' i just broke up with my boyfriend story'. So i kindly say 'ok, bye'. So a month or two now passed without talking to her and at work today she throws me a note. It says "do you still hate me?" I replied saying "no i dont hate you, i just didnt talk to you because you werent ready for a real relationship'. Why would she even care if i hate her if she has no feelings for me? that is what i don't understand. So now im thinking about what i should do next. Now i know not to be that WUSSY bag guy that follows her around buying her stuff and what not. Im thinking along the lines of "see you just can't resist this (wipe off shoulder move)" -- (since we haven't talked in months) -- ? ? ? dont even say it, if it starts with M and has another word with an O
Say: I really like you. If she blushes ask her out somewhere, if she doesn't ask her if she feels the same way. if your gonna act like a ----- and not do it then your not ready for a relationship.
