22 Year Old Guy Having Sex With 16 Year Old Girl

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  1. erkmyers

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    WOW!!!! he had a 1 year old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
     
  2. Semper-Fi

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    haha my neighbors are 7 years apart...whats the matter...oh well all these stupid topics cause fights and flaminggg haha whats the poitnttt.
     
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    in my opinion, no.

    its really none your business what other people do, and its only so taboo because society says so. if the 16 year old wants to do it too, then i dont see whats the big deal. I mean, shes under the legal age for sex consent but that was a rule implemented by people.

    not that im encouraging it, because most likely they're bound to have irresponsible sex, but this kind of thing goes on all the time. a lot of girls are goig with way older guys, and thats just their thing, i guess.

    as a dad, it can make sense that your angry because it could be your own daughter, but you also have to realize that your daughter is her own person. and if she makes the decision to be with a 20-something, then thats her choice. of course, for legal reasons i myself wouldnt allow it, but i wouldnt be *angry* about it, as long as he isnt.. predatorial.

    i hope im making sense? some people are just comfortable with different things. if your not comfortable with ur 16 yr old daughter going out with a 22 year old, then dont let her. She only has 2 more years to go before she can date anyone she wants.

    if it were my daughter, I wouldnt suggest it, but if thats what she likes then i cant change that. id let them date, but i would not allow them to have sex because its against the law for a reason. (i kno a lot of my teen friends that are girls that go out with older guys, and its really not a big deal)

    well, thats my two-cents anyways

    Oh, and if he were to try and encourage her to hav sex after knowing i said no, well then id have to kick some ass
     
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    I don't think you should be angry. Its the girls choice wether or not she wants to have sex with him. Although someone might think its not right for the 22 year old guy to do it with her, its her own personnel choice. I'm sure your daughter is going to do things behind ur back when she grows up
     
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    You do have a right to be angry but theirs really nothing you can say (to a certain extent. You can always say something to your daughter since you are the father of her if it was ever the case). It happens all the time nowadays, Older guys with younger girls. I dont know to many girls that will go for anyone thats younger than them.

    I hear a lot of girls saying they like to be with older guys because 'they have less drama' .. Whether its true or not, depends on the guy and the girl.

    I hear all the time from parents that it is tough to see their children grow up and make their own choices.
     
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    You have a right to be angry, but there really isn't much that you can do, besides talk to your own children about it.

    It does make me upset that this is happening, but I doubt it will ever stop, especially since young girls like to go for older guys, mainly due to the fact that they think that an older guy is more mature (not always the case, but hey, it's what they think).
     
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    Even our parents did stuff that seemed to upset their parents when they we're younger.
    It seems only natural. >_>
     
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    If she can make the decision if it's good for her or not, then leave it to her.

    Btw, where I live 16 is legal, so from that point if it's an agreement from both sides it should be completely fine. But I do understand your statement of being upset about it af it was your own daughter.
     
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    Personally, I wouldn't condone of something that barbaric. In all honesty, there isn't anything that can really be done due to the simple fact that the girl is "of age" and is "old" enough to make decisions for herself. I myself am a father (soon to be). The fact that I'm only 20 may be the contributing factor as to why I don't really feel so strongly against this. It's all personal preference really, none of them are breaking laws. In all actuality, I'd prefer to be with someone around my age, opposed to 6 years apart. The youngest I dated was 16. But at the time, I was 19 and she turned 17 shortly after. That's but a fraction. Was with her for a year and a half.
     
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    Although I don't think you should approve of it or anything, it really is their business. If the girl really wants to do it then she should be able to. If it was your daughter that would be different.
     
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    i know a 20 year old thats going out with a 14 year old./.
     
  12. I_R_BACK_I_R_LOSER

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    Shes sixteen and fully capable of choosing who she wants to have sex with.
     
  13. It's completely legal... right? If it is, then it's their decision. If she was being forced that's different.
     
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    Happens all the time, no need to be mad.
     
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    whats the difference between two 16 year olds banging and a 16 and a 22 year old banging? same thing in my book.

    doesn't make it morally right to be that promiscuous though.
     
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