Well theres this girl in my school that I like. We're sorta friends I guess you can say. We used to chat hella on myspace but now for some reason on myspace she is avoiding me. In school she never sees me, but I see her alot. So Im not sure if I should say hi to her. She is older than me and taller than me. So people say age and such differences matter. I am wondering what happened. Is it just a phase? And how can I get to know her and end up going out with her. She is a really nice girl. I mean she is one of the most kind girls I met in my life. I would pretty much do anything for her. I would even throw myself in the line of death... Oh and by the way Im not really sure if its a phase because every single thing is the same with her except her avoiding me. And to make a good friendship and to help her out I helped her with boy problems and drama. And no she doesn't know that I like her.
<span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS">you might not know that you have showed them but you probably have. most girls can quickly tell if a dude likes them or not but like i said, just talk to her</span>
ima shy B@$T@RD that met her on myspace and told her that Im going 2 her school next year,,... because I knew that I woulda..
...your first mistake is meeting someone online, even if they are your next door neighbor... ...your second mistake was helping her with her boy problems, this puts you in the friend spot, aka not really dating material... From what you have said, I can safely assume shes probably one of the popular crowd and your not, thus being one reason for avoidance (I am not sure of your age atm) and why you guys don't hang out and only converse via myspace, and not much, if at all in RL. As for it being a phase, it is. We, as humans, have a desire for a relationship. If your religious, a male is not completely without a female and vice versa, if your not religious, then it can be summarized as a person is not whole without a mate. I am assuming your younger, ie school and myspace, and naturally hormones are going, etc. and you don't really care who you get with, as long as its with someone, and since shes seemed to show some signs of affection for yourself, you think there is something there, and you cling to her, most people do it. As for what to do, theres a couple of things... you could talk to her in real life, see whats up, ask her if she wants to catch a movie with you sometime or something, and see where it goes. The other method is just thinking you have no chance and giving up and moving on, aka the loser way. Your choice in either case.
well ok but she only saw me 2 times in real life...umm....yea..... so sad. and no dem I am not like who ever comes. I really want to be with her. She isnt the kinda girl i wanna go and bang. with her its more of a gental feeling.
<span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS">one question.....if you two are so distant then why the hell are you so attached to her? i'm pretty sure that there are plenty other cute girls at your school</span>
"n school she never sees me, but I see her alot." That doesn't sound stalkerish at all...... Anyways.... on a more serious note. God gave you a mouth for a reason (if you're religious that is) so go use it to talk to her.
Well mate, I agree starting relation on internet is bad even if it is on myspace msn yahoo or what ever. even if it is the girl that live across the street you need to speak in real life as you said your shy, you really have to get taking to girls in reall life. I had the problem to when i was like 13 or 14. So i've she thinks your friends you really should talk to her in rl. cuz she wouldn't mind then just keep up in mind that she knows you and would talk to you that no big deal. only showing your feeling to her would be another step. and after some talking you always can ask if she wants to go out with you for fun . and later you can take another step big steps never work trust me :lol:
First, it might helped if before you went to talk to her, you used complete sentences. Assuming you're from the U.S., avoid words such as "hella", "soz", and phrases such as "I'd throw myself in the line of death for you" on your first meeting. Unless she's a turbo tramp with a name like Dashiki (which is Swahili for "doggy-style"), the gangster mentality doesn't work. You'll end up getting a much more respectable girlfriend if you speak properly. Secondly, when you do talk to her, avert your pre-pubescent eyes to hers. Stop talking to her young, nubile breasts, and focus on her. Girls will tend to give you more respect and actually respond when you show genuine interest. Lastly, ignore Guru's stalking comments. Hell, talk to her friends and teachers. Jot down notes for her personal interests, likes and dislikes, etc. That way you can even tell if you are going to get along. You don't want to be dating someone that is interested in classic muscle cars, when you yourself sit at home and play with Hello Kitty. It's only considered stalking when you start trying to get her home address, social security numbers, panty and bra sizes, and finding out is she shaves or not.
