22 Year Old Guy Having Sex With 16 Year Old Girl

Loveline ftw.

I say that you sir, made me laugh.

 

I say that you sir, made me laugh.
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stop the "banjo so deep up my ass i can hardly reach over and turn on my conway twitty greatest hits album"-talk, please.

 

At 16 she should be able to make a smart choice about who she is going to date.... on the other hand if I had a daughter id still be throwing him a beating just on principle. I would of expected the same if I was in his shoes.

 

Hm, well , my honest opinion is that the girl shouldn't be stupid enough to let that happen to herself, apparently she wasn't forced.
My other thought is , thats one lucky guy.

 

not true in the old days [before 19 century] girls married and had sex as young as 13. i being 16 believe that she could make up her mind on her own.

 

Its the same story nowadays, its called the middle east and asia, welcome aboard. You also further re-enforce my statement that the only people who would agree with this sort of behavior are children both in mentality and age.

 

For stating a fact i am a child. By your logic all teachers are children. I don't know what kind of child you were at 16 but your not me i wouldn't sleep with a girl that was 22 not at 16 infact i don't plan on sleeping with anyone till im 18. My point was if she was stupid enough to make this kind of decision then its on her. Your a child mentaly

 

Its the same story nowadays, its called the middle east and asia, welcome aboard. You also further re-enforce my statement that the only people who would agree with this sort of behavior are children both in mentality and age.
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For stating a fact i am a child. By your logic all teachers are children. I don't know what kind of child you were at 16 but your not me i wouldn't sleep with a girl that was 22 not at 16 infact i don't plan on sleeping with anyone till im 18. My point was if she was stupid enough to make this kind of decision then its on her. Your a child mentaly
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However, you think your capable of making your own choices at 16? Because I assure you, your not. If you are, go out, get a job, pay for an apartment, pay taxes, pay for your bills, get groceries, support yourself, pay your insurances, etc.

99% of all 16 year olds aren't even capable of fathoming the responsibility that comes with being an adult, and yes, sex IS an adult action, and if your engaging in it you should be treated as an adult. Again, there is no picking and choosing which responsibilities you get. Sure, she can make the decision, but she better be capable of doing other things as an adult, especially if it would be within my household. If you wish to engage in adult actions, you can take full hold of all adult responsibilities. I myself have been paying for myself since 16, and working since 14 (via mowing, etc, in the summer, not a fulltime job), and yes, I lost my virginity at a young age (right around my 14th birthday) and that was my consequence.

The ONLY people who will state a 16 year old is capable of making a decision on a scale as large as sex is going to be just that, a child, who doesn't know any better, which is why your still technically your parents responsibility until your 18. You haven't even engaged in sex yet, so you can't remotely know what sex does emotionally to a person, assuming your not some heartless person incapable of emotion and purely having sex to have sex. I was the same way at 16, "Hey, I'm an adult, I can make my own decisions", yeah, thats not how the real world flies, sorry.

 

Personally i can't see anything wrong with it, it should be up to her what she wants to do with her life, it should be her choice whether she wants to have sex or not at 16. There is absolutely nothing that anyone could say to her to make her change her mind, by enforcing these rules on the kids of today makes them more determined to go against them, they will want to have sex, they will want to rebel just for the fact that it isn't allowed.

In the UK the legal age to have sex is 16, i think that is fine. Kids of today (at least where i live) are a lot more stable and mature than what they used to be when my generation was their age. (Not that i'm an old fart or anything, lol). If the legal age by law is 16 to have sex, who are we to say that they shouldn't be allowed to have sex with a man/woman 6 years their senior? We have no right to dictate what they can and cannot do with their lives and id be damned if i was told i couldn't.

It is our own choice, if you are mature enough to decide what you think is the best for you then by all means do it, as long as you are also mature enough to deal with the consequences that could come with it. I personally lost my virginity when i was 15, almost 16 with my boyfriend who i am still with now. We both lost our virginity together and made the choice together. We would not have had sex if we were both not ready to make that sort of commitment.

Your virginity is the most wonderful thing you have, if you don't make the right decision as to who you want to lose it to, you will regret it for the rest of your life. You should have a long think about it first, be sure it is the right thing for you personally to do, if your not ready you shouldn't be forced to make that sort of decision and commitment to your partner/and or any other random person you think you want to lose it to.

The age difference shouldn't matter, if they are happy together and love each other then why shouldn't they be allowed to have sex together? If it is what they both want then why shouldn't they just go ahead and do it? If they have made the wrong decision then it is their own fault. People should be able to make up their own minds without having people telling them that they can't, trying to make them feel bad because of the decisions they have made and making them feel dirty for what they have done.

Isn't there such a thing as freedom? If they choose to do it then so be it, they should have the freedom to do whatever they choose and what actions they may take down the line.

Though Dementia has some very valid points, i also had a job since i was 13, part time on a market whilst i was still going to school, i also had a full time job when i was 16 whilst attending college. I pay my way around the house, it all depends on the persons mentality and how mature that person really is. I agree with some of the things you have said but there are other parts which i just can't agree to. I made my choice to have sex with my partner at 15, but i am also a responsible adult. Yes i may still live with my parents at the moment but i do pay my way. I would have been out of the house a lot sooner but it is so hard to get an apartment down here and so expensive that it makes it almost impossible to do so. Even waiting for a council flat down here could take up to 2-4 or more years.

 

For stating a fact i am a child. By your logic all teachers are children. I don't know what kind of child you were at 16 but your not me i wouldn't sleep with a girl that was 22 not at 16 infact i don't plan on sleeping with anyone till im 18. My point was if she was stupid enough to make this kind of decision then its on her. Your a child mentaly
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However, you think your capable of making your own choices at 16? Because I assure you, your not. If you are, go out, get a job, pay for an apartment, pay taxes, pay for your bills, get groceries, support yourself, pay your insurances, etc.

99% of all 16 year olds aren't even capable of fathoming the responsibility that comes with being an adult, and yes, sex IS an adult action, and if your engaging in it you should be treated as an adult. Again, there is no picking and choosing which responsibilities you get. Sure, she can make the decision, but she better be capable of doing other things as an adult, especially if it would be within my household. If you wish to engage in adult actions, you can take full hold of all adult responsibilities. I myself have been paying for myself since 16, and working since 14 (via mowing, etc, in the summer, not a fulltime job), and yes, I lost my virginity at a young age (right around my 14th birthday) and that was my consequence.

The ONLY people who will state a 16 year old is capable of making a decision on a scale as large as sex is going to be just that, a child, who doesn't know any better, which is why your still technically your parents responsibility until your 18. You haven't even engaged in sex yet, so you can't remotely know what sex does emotionally to a person, assuming your not some heartless person incapable of emotion and purely having sex to have sex. I was the same way at 16, "Hey, I'm an adult, I can make my own decisions", yeah, thats not how the real world flies, sorry.
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lol i do all of those except the taxes. I live by myself. I have a job. Going to college soon [two months]. buy groceries pay bills. your ageist you believe everyone in that age range is the same stupid immature not capable of making choices. if your in that state of mind you need help.

 

No, I stated that if your going to engage in adult activity, you should be treated as an adult and man up, I never once stated at 16 you are completely incapable of making decisions. Upon birth you can make decisions. Its that the *majority* of 16 year olds cannot make adult choices because they quite simply put are not adults. Your mind is NEVER fully developed and your body isn't physically developed until your mid 20s in males, and late teens with females in the first place, and sex is both a mentally and physically stressing action. Most 16 year olds CAN'T move out, support themselves, pay bills, get groceries, pay for school, gas, health / auto insurance, lose the training wheels their parents put on them, even in scientific terms. If you can't do this, you don't deserve the option of having sex, as I have stated many times before, you cannot pick and choose your adult responsibilities, you take them all, or not at all.

As said, easily 3/4s of all 16 year olds can't even comprehend what it takes to be adult, and to be speaking on an adult situation with no experience saying stupid shit like 'I am 14 and I can make those decisions' or 'shes 16, let her make her own decisions' is inaccurate. 1) You are still under your parents rules until you are 18, and then you are treated as an adult, but are still basically under your parents rules until the age of 21, where you are fully emancipated, 2) you can be emancipated as of the age of 16, however its nearly a year long process and most cases fall through due to this very reason, and requires money. The court of law in the US uses its judgment on age groups to define what their mentality (which, btw, the average 16 year old female brain, which develops faster than males and sooner) is generally incapable of the emotional effects which sex often leads to, as do law firms, insurance companies, jobs, etc.

Stereotypes are generally poor ways of judging a group of people, but yeah, they are stereotypes for a reason. Even in scientific studies its more than capable of relying on stereotypes to pass something.

 

well the girl needs to think about this and i suppose its up2 her.even though it does seem kinda gross

 

Just for the record, I f*cked my brains out at sixteen, and I'm pretty sure (<--operative phrase, here) that I came out fine.

Having said that, I agree with most of what you're saying here.

A twenty-two year old... For starters, the guy needs to think about the whole "half my age plus seven" thing. The kid ought to know better; if she's going to have sex in the first place, what the f*ck is she thinking going about it with an adult? It's simply irresponsible.

 

now that is kinda discusting, unless the girl totally dedicates herself to the man

and the parents have to0 agree as well

 

WOW!!!! he had a 1 year old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1