Girls - Crushes, Problems, Nervousness, Etc.

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  1. hotsports

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    i find the best way to get around nervousness around her is to like her. get over her abit but keep talking to her. then start to like her again...but thats just the nervousness bit.


    if you want to know if she likes you just make it obvious that you like her...your mates will pay you out most likely but thats kinda good. it lets her and her friends know and if she likes you back then she'll tell one of her her friends and you know how chikcs are. they'll always be trying to play the love doctors.... not really the best way of going about it...and i dont really do either really. but it still works most of the time and your not gonna get rejected
     
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    sorry bout double post...but no. thats not friendship kinda thing.... whens the last time a mate (girl or guy) ask if they could borrow your jumper because their cold? ------ it hasn't happened to me yet and if it did i'd expect them of being gay(guys that it)

    the old "im cold" is a classic amongst the girls for getting a guy to go closer to them. usually they want you to hug them(you should have done that, just stand behind her and hug her, not hard and you cant really make eye contact which will just make you nervous....just try to to crack a bonner....) gvivng her your jumper was still good though. she knows you care about her then... really what you should have done is both...

    oh, and you sooo should have ------ed off what ever you had to go to for another few mins to wait with her.
     
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    You did a good thing and left her there, but you shouldn't have apologized to her..For what?
     
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    Well, I apologized to her because I had to go the other way and she had to wait to get picked up at a different location, which is why I apologized -_-

    And anyway, a lot of girls at my school wear guys' sweatshirts when their cold, it doesn't mean they necessarily like them. I'm not trying to bash myself, just thought it's worth pointing out . Who knows B)
     
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    This is looking good so far.

    But it could be better. :D
     
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    /win. Seriously though, don't mean to sound harsh, but too many people base their crushes on just looks. It needs to be a mix of both personality AND looks (don't believe someone if they say looks don't matter). They are both as important as each other. ;)

    Good luck.
     
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    Just go straight for the kill now. Repeat the following phrase (make sure to insert a dramatic pause where it says, and not actually say "dramatic pause")... ready? Here it goes...

    Have you ever had your bellybutton licked... (dramatic pause) ... from the inside?

    Works 100% of the time. Guaranteed.
     
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    .ZERO Nigga wit a PSD

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    i lol'd hard
     
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    Things have sort of smoothed over, haven't talked her since last week, when we walked past each other a few times, I didn't find her eyes since she sort of looked toward the ground . Could be she's losing interest? And wtf am I talking about, lol...I don't even know if she's interested in me . I'll be working on that
     
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    I'm telling you man, stick with what I tell you, then you will never go wrong
     
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    Lol, damnit, I'm in the friends zone of the girl I like. XD
     
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    Sucks for you. xD
     
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    Yep that's bad, but don't give up.

    Friends zone > Ignore zone. If she didn't find you worthy she would ignore you, right? I guess so. So that's not so bad after all.
     
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    lol we're going out now so it's cool. ^_^
     
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    Did you ever consider, oh, say getting to know her before jumping to the girlfriend step?

    More importantly, did you ever consider that asking about things like this on the internet is pathetic?
     

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