Wow so many of you guys are sick. He doesn't need ----- help your was pathetic and want to make your selves feel better. Look your friends are truly assholes if they act/threat you as you say. They take advantage of you to make themselves feel better. Dont care what they say. Just know that we all make mistakes and some people are made smart and some have to archive intelligence! You are the one that must achive it....and so is half of the people i know! Dont worry its nothing big. Get a passing mark and as long as your teachers see that you are really trying then you have nothing to worry about! When university time comes you will have very good studing skills and your friends will think tis like high school, which its not and they will fail! You are smart, just keep telling yourself that no matter what any idiots tell you. Ohh and to all you assholes who are saying there is somthing wronge with him......stf^ and bugger off! A lot of people find assistance online and there is no problem with that! Gl with this problem, but keep in mind that you might not be the smartest one of your group of friends but by not making fun back at them you are certainly the most mature and anyone can see that xD
Dude man your bringing me way down dude way down. Cheer up dude atleast your not in africa starving or in if your so down on your self and really want to make somthing out of yourself. Mabye you should think about the army dude. My cuz is about to go to Iraq he used to be a bad druggie. Im not saying you need to because to me thats a huge decision and only you can know if its right for you..
actually I tried to enlist but they said I couldnt because 1 I wasnt the requirement age and second I cant because I wouldnt pass the psychological exam so there went the army application
Mabye you should just go to school, study, make friends with the nerd, find a place to fit in. We all know school isnt just for learning if it was people wouldnt have a problem going its the friends that everybody is after it doesnt matter if your a nerd, if your with a group of people just like you then you found were you belong or get a good relationship with your teachers that should help.
well if thats what u call friends, making fun of you and laughing when u get a problem wrong, then they arent your friends. maybe you should try to get some real friends that can help you and not put you down...
-shakes head- how did i know someone was going to make a thread like this? whats goin on is your being to self conscious, and doubting yourself. I have been going through the same situation as you for almost 2 years now since i was diagnose with depression. If i were you i would go see a counselor or ask to go see a therapist, if you sit and stew about it; It wont make anything better only worse
As I said, they are your friends at the end of the day, it's what guys do to have a laugh and to keep things interesting. Guys pick on each others weaknesses, and gloat over them, but they will always be there for you when you need them. If you can't understand anything that I've just said then you're a lost cause, you probably won't amount to anything because you'll be too busy worrying what others think of you, so snap the ------ out of your self-pity and get on with your life and work your arse off. Find your natural talent and nurture it, and CHEER UP. ENJOY YOUR TEENAGE YEARS BEFORE YOU WASTE THEM ALL.
blade7 & redcell1, how old are you? I remember my time when i was a teenager, i too was worried about how i would fit in with the rest. i too felt inferior to others, but i found a way to get rid those feelings. 1) You shouldn't think about things to get better at, just do something you like. eventually you'll get better at it. Also, if you are better at something then others, don't rub it in, just never mention it. Others will experience it over time. Also if you think you are better then someone, also don't mention it. If you don't give others a reason to laugh at you, they won't. (so if you fail at something, just don't mention it before, during or after the "test", and if someone makes fun at it, just laugh with them and pretend you don't care). 2) If you are unsure about yourself, ask teachers/people for their opinion, if they only give a negative opinion, ask them if there was nothing good at all. There are very little people who can give only negative criticism. (this is the way how i got more self asteem). when you get older, you'll experience a difference in how you interpred things. In the teenage years, its normal to care about everything. You think it's important to be found nice by others, and you do everything in order to be found nice (also the things that doesn't match your personality, and those things have the opposite effect). Once you get older you'll realise that being yourself is the best way to be liked by others. When others laugh at you, they're just jealous, not because you better per se, but because you're different then the average person. In my opinion being different is more special then being average. @ redcell1, if you're really thinking about suicide, go to a psychologist, if you don't want to, well then stop whining about it, and do it. (i'm not urging him to commit suicide, but telling others about his plans, means that he doesn't really want to commit suicide).
you need to think about new friends... well i dont know whats your definition of friends is iam pretty sure they ment to support you etc... Have you tried telling them not to do it ? I mean if any of my friends give me bad time i would do that back, if they keep doing it i wouldnt consider them as my friend at all.
