Patch your uxtheme.dll file and download Visual Styles from DeviantArt. That's your best bet if you ask me.
Everyone goes on about that uxtheme.dll but for some reason i didnt need it :blink: Anyway...yes devianart is the best place for some nice themes Arbiter
Look around here: http://www.neowin.net/forum/index.php?showtopic=140707 and search deviantART for visual styles