What Should I Do ...?

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  1. [B.C.] uLTIMA

    [B.C.] uLTIMA Well-Known Member

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    Yesterday ... I just slapped someone out of impulsivity and did not realized that. I don't know what to do now... but I'll explain the situation.

    I have a classmate sitting beside me , a guy who is irritating. He is actually someone suffering from some disease which makes him act like a 6 year-old kid while being 15. He doesn't know it , and never pay attention in class , but blindly copying notes. He always copies my work , but I don't really care. He talks for no reason , and sometimes it feels very irritating. He do whatever someone tells him to say , making him being bullied. He always has a smile and always laugh.

    I wasn't feeling well that time , and I couldn't concentrate in class anymore. I already told him many times , but I just felt worst. Of the worse thing I did , I actually slapped him. I didn't really used strength , but the sound of the impact could be heard. Many people saw this in class. Words started to spread around. It's my first deepest regret in my life. I don't know what to do now ... Today , when I went to school , many people avoided me. Some even made fun of me being violent. I'm actually quite a nerd and weakling to my friends but we're still friends on good terms.

    I didn't mind them mocking me , but words are starting to spread. Some though that I bashed him on purpose. Some came up to me to ask some questions. My home-room teacher came up to me suddenly , and asked what did I did. I told her about the situation , and was irritated til I couldn't take it. In result , she replied that why didn't I went to see her about this before, and also that I could have got sued. I said I didn't expect this to happen. At the last line , she just told me this , " Is there a need for me to do something about this ? ". She's quite strict most of the time. I don't know what to do right now. Should I look for my teacher and talk things through? I just don't know what to do now. I asked the guy I slapped whether did it felt painful , and I did apologize. He said it doesn't matter , and he didn't tell his dad. What I am afraid of now is my parents finding out or meeting the Discipline Master.

    ;( I just don't know what to do ...
     
  2. Morv

    Morv Well-Known Member

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    How come he doesn't go to a special school ?

    i'm sure your parents won't find out.. also, you go to a very weird school IMO. People slap people everyday at my school and nobody says anything, ever.
     
  3. Erinyas

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    next time , go to your teacher and ask if u can sit on a different location in the class.. em, u can tell your parents, that´s better then when they find out then trough your teacher
     
  4. `c r e a m

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    lol thats nothing, i have thrown scissors nd woodwork files at people nd a few chairs in my time nd nout bad has come from it


    ask .Apex, i threw a file at him


    nehoo, nout will happen, i slap ppl all the time, dont worry itll pass
     
  5. [B.C.] uLTIMA

    [B.C.] uLTIMA Well-Known Member

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    The teacher saw it right at the spot... she pretended she didn't see til the next day.

    Thats the problem I dont know why he didnt go to a special school
     
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    maybe buy him lunch for an apology and .. yes .. as Erin sed .. switch locations .. that would help ..
     
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    All it was was a slap, don't get worked up over it.
     
  8. [B.C.] uLTIMA

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    Well...it's different how Asia education works...

    I'll just hope for the best , thanks all. :)
     
  9. madmav

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    your sig has a piece from dA in it.
     
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    Just cause he irritated you doesnt mean you hit him you ----ing tard.
     
  11. Samyboyseke

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    Just tell it to ur parents!
    When I do sth wrong it helps telling my parents,
    They're gonna be less angry when u tell 'em than u don't tell anything and they find it out theyrselves

    @madmav:
    That has nothin to do with the topic m'boy ;)
     
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    Im a bit like that i ended up nearly in a fight like that but yeah my schools pretty rough ---- happens my friend punched a teacher he just said it passed im pretty weakbut i hi people like hat but stuff liek that happens all the time just dont worry and relax and just ask to go somewhere else in the class
     
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  14. TeRmiNaL.

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    if you are a chick just fake cry that gets you out of anything
     
  15. -Naruto-

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    ignore him if it doesnt work tell your teacher or a friend or your parents best thing ot do
     

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