Am i the only one that thinks she wasn't actually crying and that she was just playing ? The "i never new u were so mean" , "my gram is reading this and she thinks ur mean" and "im gonna go to bed crying" parts were REALLY exaggerated.
Overly emotional girls like that arent worth your time, I speak from experience, all they do is make you want to tear your hair out. You cant know if you love her if you havnt dated her, you cant know how much you like her until you live with her in general (yes, live with, its rare that you "love" someone before you are in the same household from my knowledge - not personally as im just 17). As I said, emotional = sh.it. Dont bother with it, its a sad, but oh so true story. Unless you want her to take EVERYTHING personal and you cant make a single slip up in what you say, like it comes out the wrong way and such... especially if your the kind of guy who actually does care and gets emotionally involved everytime a person you like gets emotionally hurt... youll just end up hating everything in general. Also, no, its not your problem 1 bit, its hers, taking everything personally even when no offense was intended, and no Raziel, your not the only one, I believe she was trying to pull the sympathy strings too, unless I see her on web cam crying if she says shes crying on the net I wont believe her... (phone and stuff like that is trustworthy, as you can hear it in their voice and its hard to fake that voice).
I guarantee you, this is nothing. When you have two girls... That is a nightmare. I thought, like the average guy would, "Hey, double the fun!" No... More like an infinitely worse ehadache, which turns into ruining-your-life-drama. Anyway, that rant was absolutely useless, and I apologise. On-topic: Playing hard to get for several months? Dude, you obviously didn't try hard enough for her. It's not your fault, in any way, as she made it hard for you - but surely if you had feelings for her for that long you could have at some point hooked up with her over something...
This is why highschool relationships are so hilarious. You maye not think so now, but let me tell you, this is all some silly song and dance. BElieve me, I played my part in it to. But once you graduate, go to college (or get a job) all this rediculous ---- goes right out the window. Then beer becomes the aphrodisiac, and people just freaking tell each other whats up without this crazy stuff. Just be patient, and realize that this is not the end of the world. Those of you older than 18 probably know this full well already. Oh, and having serious conversations over a chat client is also stupid. Pick up the damn phone people! ^_^
little bit of advice don't go for this deadly combination: blonde, golddigger, too hot for you, ignorative
