Im italian Anyways, I dont know, I really dont care, I dont find black girls attractive at all for some reason except for a small few, but some asians are hot. I probley would be mad if i ever had a kid that was with a black person, not out of rasism really just because. I know alot of black familys that have the same feelings at white people but arent rasist so ya. For some reason alot of Black girls like me though
im not going to bother reading this because frankly i think my opinion matters most lol, just kidding, i just dont have the time to read all the responses. i personally would never date a black person, though I dont see interracial families or relationships as anything wrong. I just have personal tastes and have yet to meet a black girl who fits my tastes. I have and will continue to date lots of other races like asians, hispanics, etc. and have no problem with it. I have a lot of black friends and such, just no personal taste for black women.
Honestly, where I live the majority of folks are now asian. I went out with an asian girl and that was a blast. I see many couples of different backgrounds and everyone seems to get along just fine. There's nothing wrong with a little change in the system
My youth pastor was married to a Polish girl. He himself was a mix, Iranian and Nigerian. The two have had one of THE best relationships I've ever seen anywhere. I see no problems with it. Those who frown upon it need to realize that this isn't the 1800s.
You honestly believe that in just a few hundred years, no one will be able to tell color from color? You do realize that much of the world is still segregated, don't you? I'd think it would take much more than just a few hundred years. Interratial relationships and their approval from society depends on the situation and location. If you live in the south, where a lot of people are still as racist as ever, it obviously won't be as easily accepted. But if you live in an area with a diverse population, then it's not a problem. As far as interratial couples thinking things through before having a child, that's completely stupid. We are born as equal humans, but that is where our equality ends. As soon as you are born, depending on your parents, you may forever be white or black or rich or poor. We are not given equal opportunity, in fact it's really impossible. You can change certain things if you work hard enough for it. The kid may end up not wanting to be half black and half white, but what if he ends up being fine with it? I know a few kids here like that, and they don't get any ---- about it. It's hard for a person to truly not be a racist. If you're white, you automatically think differently about hispanics and blacks, and vice versa. It can be positive, negative, or stereotypical, but can all be considered racist. I do not consider myself a racist, but I have found that stereotypes generally tend to be true.
Yea but I live in maryland/DC I mean they hate it down here it's like they act like they are killing some one if they date our there race . And I hate they need to let them be a love who they love.
I'm assuming you live in the south. I've been to areas where schools are still segregated. Saying a lot was exaggerrating, yeah.
I agree with Dementia. and thestarofdeath here also.. except I wouldnt date hispanics either... And to moodygirl, and a few others but i noticed you the most, I'm 15 atm...I dont give a crap about love xD ...just good old fashion teenage crushes..awww yeah
Ill let everyone in on a nice bit of advice, if your actually a good person, dont have sex until later in life, because when you get into a serious relationship and they are virgins your gonna hate yourself for it. Makes me sound older than I am, which I dont like, but believe me, the short-term payoff of high school sex is not worth the long term effects it can have on someone who actually cares about people and their relationships and which to value them.
Older cousins have given me the exact same advice, and some have had some bad experiences because they didn't follow that advice.
people love who they love. you can't say that people can't do this sort of thing just because someone else might hate their kids. these people don't care what others think. they have children, they love those children, and not having interracial couples isn't the solution to the hatred problem. I just can't see why anyone would hate this type of thing so much... I mean, especially if you're gay. could you help who you were? was there some point in your life where you made a choice? or did you one day just discover that you were gay? I have no idea how it works, but I'm inclined to think that it wasn't a concious decision. and for those who think (like in American History X - not saying anyone here thinks this) that it's gonna get rid of the "white" culture, I say: wtf? since when is there a "white culture?" in europe, maybe, but this country has been, is and will be a melting pot. we have an American culture, and anyone who lives here is a part of that, regardless of race.
I wasnt necassarily talkin bout getting chicks just so I can have sex with them and then ditch em... it's just, most highschool relationships wont go too far anyway...they can last a while, but it wont carry out untill later in life usually..
yeah, im just speaking from personal experience in my high school age relationships, wasnt saying thats what you were inferring. as far as relationships not lasting, 3 of my 4 cousins met their spouses in high school or earlier (1 of them met their current spouse in middle school) and they have some of the most successful marriages i have seen (mid 20-mid 30s in age between the cousins).
i live in DC i dont see that though.... usually big citys are more acceptable to interacial couples due to the bigger diversity of the citys rather than some smaller town i for one have had a black girlfriend, and i didnt go out with her for her skin color, i went out with her for her
