ooooooooorrrrrrrr..... you could just be yourself and let them know what to expect from you first hand lol
your so damn right , this allways annoys me , being someone your not on dates , like acting completly diffirent and thin getting married with someone but thin that you got that person you go back to the way you were and that someone will start losing interrest in you , act normal , dont do anything you dont usually do so you dont expect anything unnatural to happen, i mean imagine two people on a date acting completly diffirent from their real personalities so that they can impress each other , thin after a while they get married and each one of them thinks he doesnt have to act like that anymore and they both go back into acting naturally and suddenly bowala mothe ----e is this the same person i married? and it says in that article making an impression before the person meets th e real you , this is so stupid that person it going out with YOU , if the person falls in love with you thin its not really YOU its the person you were pretending to be and as soon as u go back to normal they wont be in love with you anymore , so whats the point? wont it be much better if both sides act natuarlly so if they do fall in love with each other they will both know that they will most likely allways be together and know what to expect from the other person in the future? if your acting so diffirently just to get that someone to like you because apparently if you dont act diffirently thin they wont like you thin isnt it obvious that that person isnt for you? ok you cut your nails , wear diffirently and do all of the other stuff that are mentioned in that article and more , you keep doing it for a few dates , and thin after a while maybe u get married , what you gonna do thin? you gonna keep acting like a diff person for ever? you cant do that , you are not capable of doing that , and what for? so they keep looking at you the same way they were on your first and previous dates?
that list is quite funny actually :lol: what a chick will get on our first date, is wat she'll get the 2nd.. 3rd and 4th time we meet up..... which is scruffy ol' me: rolled up jeans, singlet, skate shoes, hat\beanie, goaty + sidiez, nice aftershave, nice'ish watch and my "don't give a f***" attitude... u know why? because thats ME! i'll have to correct myfirst statement: "that list is stupid" why would u want a chick who doesn't want u for u? **edit** lol... amen brutha'
I'm screwed on the hair thing... I will never cut my hair for a girl... unless she is really hot. Then I will have to think about it
i don't really refer to anything as a date untill ashe is my girlfriend. i've been dating a girl for two months now. and by remaining so aloof i have been able to geta good understanding on how she will be as a girlfriend and i hpe vice versa.
Well, if you consider this being someone else that means you are always dirty, stupid looking and doesn't care of yourself ? I do that always except for the whitening thjings on your teeth I find that stupid.... Those are not attitudes to be, they are what you should check before meeting someone.
