the internet is destructive wouldnt go spilling ur heart or "others" hearts all other the place its rude and well people on internet dont rele care about u seeing as you might be all the way across the planet.
Ok, first of all, I would try to talk to Bob and Joe. If they're real good friends of yours, then you definitely want to level with them first and get all of this off your chest. Pretty much just tell them what you are thinking, and if they're really your friends, then you should be okay because they will respect your decisions, whatever you decide. If they are okay with it, I would try to stay in touch with Girl. Friends and family are the two things in the world that really matter, and good friends are hard to come by. The way I'm reading your description of Girl, I think you and she must be pretty good friends, or at least comfortable around each other. If Bob and Joe are really your friends, they will respect you and your decisions if you tell them the truth like you told us. I hope this helps you work this out. SC365
maybe they are just immature, if they cant just get the hell over it and stop complaining about it they are really mature, i mean real friends would be like hahaha bob you lost her hahaha not like you suck for taking her when bob never even had her...i mean honestly, who cares, this shouldnt bother you for the rest of your life